The Female Code: 5 Things That Make Her Want You (Part 1)
83K views · Oct 13, 2025 · Education
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@MindfulMuslimah · 11 months ago (edited) · pinned
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@imfermion206 · 11 months ago
man this seems tougher than quantum mechanics
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@njcronk · 7 hours ago (edited)
As an outsider, I think your advice is 100% accurate. There are so many survivor stories made by women who were formally in Islamic marriages that prejudice me (and others) against Islam. Your channel makes me aware there are Muslim men who actually want a healthy marriage that gives a woman the space to find happiness within such a heavily patriarchal community. I'm still skeptical because I believe patriarchy to be the root of most evil, but at least I am more open to the idea some women may actually thrive in such a community. (The world is watching.)
@thegentleman6616 · 11 months ago
IIn my entire engineering career, I thought engineering was the toughest thing I’d ever learned — but apparently, I was wrong...
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@MoosaIslamic · 11 months ago
1. Emotional safety/space to share and be heard<br>2. Communicate to connect, show engagement, mirror emotions<br>3. Make her feel special (cat-and-mouse on some level). Deeper conversation, etc.<br>4. Lead by taking her shura (Sunnah)<br>5. Emotional reliability/clarity, so she understands your Haal.
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@gamerz8220 · 10 months ago (edited)
I'm getting married soon, and I was worried about how I'd treat my partner. But after watching this video, I realized I'm already on the right track! The points mentioned are things I've already been thinking of doing, and it's reassuring to know I'm more then prepared to make our relationship work. May Allah help me in the rest.
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@tgmadil4921 · 11 months ago (edited)
As a man (teenager)<br>We have learned a lot. <br>Your channel and experience is perfect <br>I am very grateful for it <br>And may Allah bless you, and give you a happy and long life and make it easy for you in this duniya and in the Hereafter
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@Nawa009 · 11 months ago
You’re saying qawaam (I guess) and the subtitles are showing Qur’an. Btw, great video, may Allah make us all like the prophet Muhammad ﷺ Ameen.
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@zkrzt6932 · 9 days ago
thank you auntie,<br>may we get the better of your teachings and may God make us as righteous as the prophet pbuh was to his wives
@BlueCodesDev · 11 months ago
My mom always calls me and tells me what she did with all the details to the point I just tune out like the brother in the story. I didn't know my mom was doing it to connect not just to share some information, I feel so sorry for not listening to her all the time
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@WorshipYourLord · 10 months ago
Salaamu alaykum Sister. I know most of your content is geared towards our sisters, and May Allah Reward you abundantly for that, but I think a lot of brothers would really benefit from a deeper dive into the topics you touched on in this video. As you can see from many of the comments, much of what you are sharing is very alien to a lot of brothers, so any additional content you could provide that would help enlightens us on the "female" perspective would be welcomed and help us become better husbands, inshaAllah.
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@ArshadAnsari-lm2du · 1 month ago
Wow just wow, this is absolutely golden. Thank you so much. I am looking to get married as a guy and this is absolutely going to help me a lot and I can also discuss these points with her to win her. Alhamdulillah
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