Why Foreign Men Struggle Dating In Japan

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  @takashiifromjapan · 8 months ago · pinned

  Let’s start learning Japanese 🇯🇵<br>→<a href="https://takashii.shop/">https://takashii.shop/</a>

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• JA

  @jakenbakeLIVE · 3 years ago

  I definitely don&apos;t deserve to be the thumbnail on this video. I am no expert in this field haha. But thanks for having me Takashi!

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• LA

  @LauraAdamsRodriguez · 3 years ago

  That Australian guy&apos;s attitude was great, he even asked Takashi questions which I found really nice of him

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  @Specialist7 · 3 years ago

  Rupa nailed it the first 5 minutes of the video, I dated a Japanese girl for about a year while living in Japan and she was looking at it as serious/having family type relationship as they tend to set things on a timeline, date for how many years, get married, do stuff together for about a year or so then start a family etc... If you&apos;re not serious they don&apos;t want to spend the time. Of course the whole foreigner can be three different things. One they&apos;re attracted to the fact that we&apos;re a bit more upfront as opposed to Japanese guys who are a bit more timid and shy. Two is they might see a foreigner as a one time, do something different in their life but ultimately marry a Japanese guy because they&apos;re not used to the language barrier/customs etc...Three... dare I say this, the ones learning English and/or live closer to places with a bit more foreigners (city, US bases etc..) want something different and want to live/get out of Japan scenario as that&apos;s all they&apos;ve been to all their lives not to knowing that Japan life has been great for me IMO. A lot of girls in Japan have this agreement type mindset where if you tell them you like/love them then its really that. Whereas if you do this whole actions speak louder than words kind of deal, they take notice but they wont have a clue until you tell them. So my #1 advice is just be straight up to them and they will with you.

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• NI

  @nicoG102 · 2 years ago

  How&apos;s nobody in the comment section mentioning how goddamn wholesome and chill that first Aussie guy is!? My dude&apos;s got a massively likeable personality!

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• CE

  @Celtic-Texan · 3 years ago

  Maybe it&apos;s a generational thing, but I came to Japan in the late 80&apos;s, and it was super easy dating. I took an immediate interest in the culture, learned enough of the language to navigate my days, and it worked. Granted I was in close proximity to folks used to being around gaijin since I was Air Force in Okinawa, but when I moved to mainland to Fukuoka it wasn&apos;t the case, not many gaijin were around at all, but still was incredibly easy to meet girls highly interested to go on dates. Anyway, met the love of my life in Fukuoka in 1993, and 30 years later, 27 years of marriage, and 3 kids, we&apos;re happy in Texas!

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• AK

  @ak_kamal74 · 3 years ago

  About the Australian guy. <br> <br>Congratulations, Takashi. You found yourself a new friend

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• JA

  @JawsFan27 · 3 years ago

  From personal experience, it&apos;s hard being able to tell exactly what Japanese women are thinking. I&apos;ve had dates where things seemed to have gone very well that resulted in complete silence a day later with literally no explanation or reasoning. The language barrier is somewhat of a problem, but most women I&apos;ve met were able to hold conversations well enough to get their thoughts across.

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• LI

  @lighters5266 · 2 years ago

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VfN9s0j07WI&amp;t=207">3:27</a> I like how the Australian guy reverse interviewed Takashii

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• TH

  @The4Tifier · 3 years ago

  When my sister heard that Japanese women would take 1 month until they go out on a date, she immediately said that it was so they could do a whole bunch of preparations for the date (new clothes, make-up and hair appointments, skin treatments, etc.)

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  @saintsataniko2116 · 3 years ago

  It&apos;s amazing: The half-Japanese guy from Brooklyn may as well be any Italian guy from Brooklyn, from the way he talks, to his outfit and his posture. He&apos;s still a New Yorkers through and through.

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• XY

  @xyphxer · 3 years ago

  as an asian foreigner here in Japan, who looks like a Japanese or rather won&apos;t be able to tell me apart unless I speak, it is harder for us, compared to someone who looks totally foreign. <br>haven&apos;t seen any interviews on the opinions of people who looks japanese but is not and their experience

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