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Your Reality | Award-winning short film on Gaslighting

8.5M views · Jul 20, 2021 · Entertainment

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  • @TatjanaAnders · 5 years ago (edited) · pinned

    I released a video update about Your Reality feature film: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tf1x0olu4uI">https://youtu.be/tf1x0olu4uI</a> <br><br>Want to know HOW THE STORY ENDS? 🎬 Join our waitlist and be the first to know when the full length feature film comes out: <a href="https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/">https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/</a> <br><br>If you&apos;re struggling to break free from a narcissist, here is a guided daily meditation to help regain your self-belief: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AzQzMtusEA">https://youtu.be/_AzQzMtusEA</a> 💪 <br><br>Wow! over 6 million views! 😍 Thank you so much for supporting our film and sharing it with your friends ❤🙏<br>For everyone who’s been asking me about the Official “Your Reality” Soundtrack Song - the artist asked me to share this link with you: <a href="https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/echowantshervoiceback/your-reality-original-motion-picture-soundtrack-feat-blu-mo-special-version">https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/echowantshervoiceback/your-reality-original-motion-picture-soundtrack-feat-blu-mo-special-version</a> <br><br>On another note - here&apos;s a video that I hope some of you might find helpful: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIylmyN4sAc">https://youtu.be/JIylmyN4sAc</a> <br>It&apos;s about how to learn to love ourselves ❤, because when we are in an abusive relationship (no matter if it&apos;s romantic, family, or platonic) the narcissist often convinces us that we&apos;re worthless and no one will ever love us. And if we end up falling into their trap, it takes considerable effort and a few useful techniques to change our mindset. <br><br>Also, we are currently working on a FEATURE FILM version of Your Reality. If you want to stay up to date with our progress, feel free to sign up to my newsletter here: <a href="https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/">https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/</a><br><br>Also, please like, subscribe and share with anyone who needs to see this film ❤<br><br>Here are some useful resources if you feel like the film hit a nerve:<br><a href="https://www.refuge.org.uk/">https://www.refuge.org.uk/</a> - domestic abuse charity<br><a href="https://lovefraud.com/">https://lovefraud.com/</a> - great resources and a forum to get advice from people in similar situation<br><a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/">https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/</a> - incredibly insightful blog posts on narcissists and gaslighting<br>&quot;When love is a lie&quot; by Zari Ballard (such a powerful book) <br><br>* Completely unrelated: if you are a tea lover like me, check out my company <a href="http://www.teapro.co.uk/">www.teapro.co.uk</a> - a loose leaf tea subscription, which takes you on tea discovery journey around the world. 😇 🍵💚

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  • @Louclark54 · 1 year ago

    Narcissism should be discussed in classes starting in middle school. It will save a lot of lives- literally.

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  • @kellydavis6821 · 4 years ago (edited)

    Sometimes being In a bad relationship can make you feel even lonlier than when you&apos;re single

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  • @shilohbell1573 · 4 years ago

    I told my daughter, it starts with backhand compliments. If they give you a compliment and back it up with an insult, RUN.

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  • @marilynmccaskey112 · 8 months ago

    A best friend that takes the word of the boyfriend isn&apos;t a friend.

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  • @Amandapanda11144 · 4 years ago

    Definitely a red flag when they constantly make you believe your memory isn’t good. They want to make you feel like you’re crazy.

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  • @Алми4947 · 4 years ago

    I love how in the beginning of the film, author included how her own mother calls her selfish. It all starts in the childhood with narcissistic parents

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  • @kaleidojess · 4 years ago

    Red flag number one is the confusion. A good relationship doesn&apos;t include confusion. Someone who cares about you won&apos;t ever play games with your head and heart like that.

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  • @ADHDiva_combined · 1 year ago

    Narcissists first make you doubt for yourself and then cut you out from your friends and family. Of course to the outside world they seem sweet angels.

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  • @mirbilal8229 · 4 years ago

    Moral of the story:little things really matters and one should never ignore little signs.

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  • @realestateandvibes · 3 years ago

    Dr. Ramani said the minute you feel like you have to start recording and saving messages like you&apos;re building a case....you&apos;re in trouble! And that is so true!!!

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  • @MiyahMiyah668 · 3 years ago

    Going to someone’s house for a first date is insane

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