Your Reality | Award-winning short film on Gaslighting
8.5M views · Jul 20, 2021 · Entertainment
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@TatjanaAnders · 5 years ago (edited) · pinned
I released a video update about Your Reality feature film: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tf1x0olu4uI">https://youtu.be/tf1x0olu4uI</a> <br><br>Want to know HOW THE STORY ENDS? 🎬 Join our waitlist and be the first to know when the full length feature film comes out: <a href="https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/">https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/</a> <br><br>If you're struggling to break free from a narcissist, here is a guided daily meditation to help regain your self-belief: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AzQzMtusEA">https://youtu.be/_AzQzMtusEA</a> 💪 <br><br>Wow! over 6 million views! 😍 Thank you so much for supporting our film and sharing it with your friends ❤🙏<br>For everyone who’s been asking me about the Official “Your Reality” Soundtrack Song - the artist asked me to share this link with you: <a href="https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/echowantshervoiceback/your-reality-original-motion-picture-soundtrack-feat-blu-mo-special-version">https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/echowantshervoiceback/your-reality-original-motion-picture-soundtrack-feat-blu-mo-special-version</a> <br><br>On another note - here's a video that I hope some of you might find helpful: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIylmyN4sAc">https://youtu.be/JIylmyN4sAc</a> <br>It's about how to learn to love ourselves ❤, because when we are in an abusive relationship (no matter if it's romantic, family, or platonic) the narcissist often convinces us that we're worthless and no one will ever love us. And if we end up falling into their trap, it takes considerable effort and a few useful techniques to change our mindset. <br><br>Also, we are currently working on a FEATURE FILM version of Your Reality. If you want to stay up to date with our progress, feel free to sign up to my newsletter here: <a href="https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/">https://tatjana-anders.com/your-reality-film/</a><br><br>Also, please like, subscribe and share with anyone who needs to see this film ❤<br><br>Here are some useful resources if you feel like the film hit a nerve:<br><a href="https://www.refuge.org.uk/">https://www.refuge.org.uk/</a> - domestic abuse charity<br><a href="https://lovefraud.com/">https://lovefraud.com/</a> - great resources and a forum to get advice from people in similar situation<br><a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/">https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/</a> - incredibly insightful blog posts on narcissists and gaslighting<br>"When love is a lie" by Zari Ballard (such a powerful book) <br><br>* Completely unrelated: if you are a tea lover like me, check out my company <a href="http://www.teapro.co.uk/">www.teapro.co.uk</a> - a loose leaf tea subscription, which takes you on tea discovery journey around the world. 😇 🍵💚
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@Louclark54 · 1 year ago
Narcissism should be discussed in classes starting in middle school. It will save a lot of lives- literally.
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@kellydavis6821 · 4 years ago (edited)
Sometimes being In a bad relationship can make you feel even lonlier than when you're single
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@shilohbell1573 · 4 years ago
I told my daughter, it starts with backhand compliments. If they give you a compliment and back it up with an insult, RUN.
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@marilynmccaskey112 · 8 months ago
A best friend that takes the word of the boyfriend isn't a friend.
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@Amandapanda11144 · 4 years ago
Definitely a red flag when they constantly make you believe your memory isn’t good. They want to make you feel like you’re crazy.
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@Алми4947 · 4 years ago
I love how in the beginning of the film, author included how her own mother calls her selfish. It all starts in the childhood with narcissistic parents
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@kaleidojess · 4 years ago
Red flag number one is the confusion. A good relationship doesn't include confusion. Someone who cares about you won't ever play games with your head and heart like that.
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@ADHDiva_combined · 1 year ago
Narcissists first make you doubt for yourself and then cut you out from your friends and family. Of course to the outside world they seem sweet angels.
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@mirbilal8229 · 4 years ago
Moral of the story:little things really matters and one should never ignore little signs.
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@realestateandvibes · 3 years ago
Dr. Ramani said the minute you feel like you have to start recording and saving messages like you're building a case....you're in trouble! And that is so true!!!
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@MiyahMiyah668 · 3 years ago
Going to someone’s house for a first date is insane
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