The Narcissist Is Parasitic

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• LE

  @lesilluminations1 · 1 year ago

  Every now and then I have to return to Lise's videos to remind myself of what I got away from.

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• JG

  @jg5930 · 3 years ago

  Run away as fast as you can and never look back! 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃<br>🤦‍♀️

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• DU

  @Duzykutas · 3 years ago

  After 2 years with a malignant narcissist I was a shell of myself. In such a deep hole that it took me 2 years to dig my way out. They are wholly evil, it&apos;s like they feed off you. &apos;Energy vampires&apos; my therapist calls them.

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• HA

  @hardywatkins7737 · 4 years ago

  Yes. They&apos;re both predators AND parasites. My narc ex wouldn&apos;t be able to function on her own and she is 100 % dependent upon the primary partner to look after her, bring in an income which is funny because she sees herself as a &apos;strong independent woman&apos;. She had some really bad social anxiety also. So glad she discarded me ... &nbsp;I feel sorry for her current husband and their children ... they&apos;ll all see it eventually if they haven&apos;t by now.

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• SA

  @sandygoddard7478 · 3 years ago

  From what I&apos;ve seen, narcissists rarely change. We can&apos;t afford to wait around and see, it&apos;s too dangerous.

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• KL

  @KleeKaiPuppies4sale · 4 years ago

  My ex had an evil smirk. &nbsp;He knew. &nbsp;He fooled me for years but like you said it gets worse and worse and worse and I left. &nbsp;I had to leave or emotionally die. &nbsp;Much love and light to all you good spirits❤️

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• LA

  @Lauren-vd4qe · 4 years ago

  they will only do that if you have contact with them. AVOID THEM! block them on your phone; move away, get a job, do what you have to do.

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• JO

  @johnbraun814 · 2 years ago (edited)

  I was a plump and vibrant person, left drained and withered. Like a withered raisin.

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• FR

  @fredhubbard7210 · 4 years ago (edited)

  Kudos for your use of language. Narcissists are not predators, not clever, and not to be respected in any way. They are pathetic, amoral, desperate, and manipulative. Sadly, their targets are gentle, empathic, good and decent people in their lives, that they have exploit. If they had power, or anything of value to offer... they would get along with each other.<br><br>Growing up, there was a jingle &quot;I know you are but what am I?&quot; Narcissists never got beyond that grade school intellectual level.

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• CA

  @carpathianken · 4 years ago

  Myth#5 <br>&quot;Their behaviour is not personal&quot;.<br> Is probably one of the most important mental health preservation messages that I&apos;ve heard which will help people in the midst of dealing with narcissistic people.<br>It seems like we, as empaths are like sponges &amp; we generally have a tendency to absorb every negative thing narcissist&apos;s send our way.<br>I worry that even the most robust &amp; stoic empath personality can succumb to narcissistic toxicity eventually if we don&apos;t mindfully get into the habit of not taking narcissistic abuse too personally.<br>It seems like many empaths become so broken &amp; disempowered because they&apos;ve taken the narcissistic abuse to heart, that they then can&apos;t stealthily &amp; safely implement their escape plan from their parasitic narcissist.<br>Thanks for another brilliant video.It&apos;s both wonderfully educational &amp; empowering.

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• VE

  @vettevegas8549 · 4 years ago (edited)

  I grew up under a &nbsp;Narcissist father. I always (even as a kid) couldn&apos;t understand his wierd &quot;competiveness&quot; with even my small brother and I. Or just cold &quot;indifference&quot;. He&apos;s 94years this year, and I wasted 60yrs trying to &quot;please&quot; him too his satisfaction. Turned grey-rock to him on my 60th birthday. But I&apos;ll still chat about the weather and absorb whatever the daily insult. I finally realized he&apos;s not qualified to have an unselfish opinion.

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• RA

  @rascallyrabbit · 3 years ago

  it seems they lack a deep moral framework and play hide and seek when challenged.

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