8 Signs Your Mom is a Narcissist

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  @pam8962 · 11 months ago

  You don't have to wait for an apology. It will never come

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  @thelantern9075 · 2 years ago

  My mom is a great teacher, she taught me exactly what I didn’t want to be.

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  @isabellavalencia8026 · 1 year ago

  My mom will say "that never happened"when it happened.

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  @cuca_ · 1 year ago

  Watching this is soo depressing… slowly accepting my mom is a narcissist, emotionally immature and emotionally abusive

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  @_Renee2 · 2 years ago

  My mother has never apologized. Even when she attempted to ‘apologize’ it ended with her cursing me and blaming shifting.

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  @tinkerpinkerton5449 · 3 years ago

  My mother stopped me having a future. She "put her foot down" and demanded I stop college, forgo uni and work in a factory so I could pay her the rent I owed her for bringing me up for 16 years. I'm 50 now, she's still evil.

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  @serennates · 1 year ago

  Having a narcissist as a mother will make you go and feel CRAZY. To be validated is amazing. Thank you so much for this video.

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  @ibn1989 · 1 year ago

  Both of my parents were my first bullies. This shit sucks.

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• KU

  @kungazopa2831 · 1 year ago (edited)

  1. Your mother sees you as an &nbsp;extension of herself.<br>2. She can dish out tons of criticism but can not accept any herself.<br>3. She shares private information about you with others without your permission.<br>4. She holds basic parental duties over your head.<br>5. She does not respect boundaries.<br>6. Gaslighting. She will constantly tell you that you are remembering things wrong.<br>7. She is always competing with you.<br>8. She is always the victim. <br><br>How to heal:<br>1. Setting healthy boundaries with your mom.<br>2. Inner Child work.<br>3. Look for ways it affects your life today.<br>4. Grieving the relationship that we did not get.<br>5. Improve your &quot;Self Talk&apos;.

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• YU

  @yumbunny2566 · 3 years ago (edited)

  It’s even harder when you’re the only one who can see they’re a narcissist. My mum is perfectly nice to everyone else but narcissistic towards me, and whenever I tell anyone who knows her they think I’m overreacting.<br><br><br><br>EDIT: To everyone replying “same for me” or “that’s just like my mom/dad” or something like that, I just want to say I’m so sorry for all the BS you went through/continue to go through, and how much it must hurt knowing no one else seems to be on your side. I know exactly how that feels. Everyone seems to worship my mum (for her intelligence, her generosity, her sense of humour, her ability to handle her so called “retarded kids” that she always rants about to her friends…) and there’s times where I just wanna scream everything she’s done from the rooftops and just break down crying, (but that would be no use anyway. Knowing my mum, she’d probably just get away with telling everyone I’m deranged or some shit).<br><br>It got to the point where I thought there was no point in trying anymore. What’s the use? No one would believe me, not my teachers, not my family, and even my siblings who have also been at the receiving end of her abuse always find a way to forgive her (she’s very manipulative). I started think that maybe they were right, maybe <i>I’m</i> the crazy one, and even if I’m not, what’s the use?<br><br>I won’t get into any triggering details, but it got so bad that I started having some very dark thoughts.<br><br><b>WARNING: THE FOLLOWING PARAGRAPH CONTAINS A VERY MUSHY, CORNY MESSAGE FOR YOU SO IF YOU’RE NOT THE KIND OF PERSON WHO LOVES SOPPY AFFECTION PLEASE DO NOT READ ON</b> (this is just a joke. Honestly please DO read on. Peace ✌️)<br><br>It hurts reading these replies and realising so many people are going through what I go through, but in a weird way, it’s also comforting to know I’m not the only one. I just wanna wrap you all in a big hug. Just know I’m fighting for all of you from the corner 🙌. <b>I REALLY HATE to get all mushy and corny, and this is going to sound corny as hell</b> , but know that <i>I’m</i> on your side. <i>I’m</i> that one person that’s standing by you, even when no one else believes you. <i>I’m</i> the one person rooting for you to get through this, even when no one else will. Even if I don’t know you guys, I hope that’s enough for you to stay strong.<br><br>Sending you all a big hug ⊂(・﹏・⊂)<br><br>Xoxo<br><br>Jumi

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  @TheMelamia · 2 years ago (edited)

  My mother has given me the silence treatment for 8 years, over a minor misunderstanding. It was painful to accept that she doesn’t love me, but it also set me free.

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  @TheDivayenta · 11 months ago

  I was so damaged I was terrified to have kids for fear of unconsciously repeating her abuse.

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