Dating Advice (From a Catholic Priest) | LITTLE BY LITTLE | Fr Columba Jordan CFR

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• RU

  @ruen13540 · 1 year ago

  31,single,hopeless,, terrified,,,,pray for me

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• BE

  @BeanLord69 · 1 year ago

  Lord, if it Your will, help me be worthy of marriage. Help me get married for Your glory one day!

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• BI

  @bizzy5439 · 1 year ago

  Been there done that... healing is a multi-year process, so please be gentle with yourself

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• WI

  @wigglywoo8899 · 1 year ago

  Im a happily married woman....almost 19 years. I pray i get to grow old with my husband, but i have pancreatic cancer,  so unsure of how much time I have. I know men are fast to remarry when a spouse dies, and so i pray that it isn't the case for my husband, as i dont want a toxic stepmom for my teens. I pray that God would have His hand in it all, and Ive asked my husband to wait atleast a year before dating...to use that time to bond more with our teens, get to know himself, actually grieve, and learn how to do more things on his own.

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• VI

  @virgochick1 · 1 year ago

  I was in a very toxic marriage. I did marry him because he reminded me of my father, I see, this in retrospect. I converted to Catholicism after my divorce, and subsequently, my former husband died. I'm now 61, and I'm happily, single but open to God gifting me with the sacrament of marriage to a strong, God-fearing Catholic man if it's His will. 🙏❤️

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• JU

  @juliesheard2122 · 1 year ago

  I did this. I chose a man who treat me as a thing. 28 years of pain, till he died of cancer

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• LA

  @LadyGwen4 · 1 year ago

  Guilty 🙋🏽 For me, it's picking people who are unavailable and then agonizing over why I can't have them! At least I recognize it now. For many years I didn't even really recognize it. Thank God for miracles 🙏🏽

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• H8

  @h82cUg0 · 5 months ago

  Going on pilgrimage( A couple of days). Have lots to pray about and for.  I ask prayers for safe travel. Thank you!

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• MA

  @marialperez1773 · 1 year ago

  Father, in my case I am single but the feeling of  Romantic love is weakening on me, but my heart is ready to love everyone spiritually. This is a gift , I think, and if from God, I cherished it.

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• SM

  @Smasia · 1 year ago

  So so true! I am a perfect example and yes, God can and will heal us if we let Him. Yes, He needs our permission, our surrender. And He will make everything beautiful in His time. I don't even recognize myself. I am changed, I am healed but my heart had to be broken first. God knows what He's doing, I trust Him ❤ 🕊 ❤️‍🔥

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• KJ

  @kjolszanski7979 · 2 months ago

  Fr., you are speaking very wisely about Truth and Love...and trauma of patterns in relationships...and the lie of shame....

• PE

  @peacefulisland67 · 3 weeks ago

  We find the people who make us look at our own trauma.<br>Make us so agitated that we can&apos;t ignore &nbsp;and have to deal with it.