Gen Z Men Are Facing A Friendship Crisis
59K views · Jun 14, 2026 · People & Blogs
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@ColeHastings · 3 months ago · pinned
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@churchofmarcus · 3 months ago (edited)
I had one of those close male friendships. Our female boss called us brofriends, and we thought it was funny so we'd introduce each other to people that way. He eventually moved back home hundreds of miles away. I miss my brofriend.
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@yfaewwegfawg · 3 months ago
In my experience there’s nothing that brings men together anymore. Just going out, drinking, and consuming gets old very fast and even feels humiliating, like what we’re just a bunch of dudes doing nothing?
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@lizapoet · 3 months ago
also would be fascinated to explore how most strong male friendships in media become perceived as gay by modern audiences. male friendship is so rare that it <b>must</b> be romantic, or so it seems
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@ImShamu · 3 months ago
As a dude, I feel so weird that I'm seeking a close friendship even more than I'm seeking a romance.
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@sliightdriizzle6011 · 3 months ago
When my friend was moving outta state we said all the things that we kept unsaid for so long. This grown man cried when he told me he loved me. I cried too. I love my homies with all my heart.<br><br>Just fucking say it. Even if they call you soft or gay who cares. If you love your friends, just fucking tell them. They'll say it back when they realize it's okay to say it
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@6wassiop · 3 months ago
A generation that's 'cringed' and shamed themselves into a fear of showing any kind of emotion has trouble making friends? Shocker.
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@Paragon_CS · 3 months ago
I would say another problem is that many men are way too focused on chasing women, and especially when the average man enters a relationship, then that man invests most of his free time in that woman and neglects to spend time with his friends. Then after a breakup that man comes back and wants to hang out again
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@BRBallin1 · 3 months ago
As a guy I feel that men are often lazy when it comes to planning social activities together. They often just come to crash at someone’s place to do drugs and maybe play video games. Women on the other hand often plan things more thoughtfully like cooking specific dishes, her girlfriends pitch in too, they play some games, have conversations to know more about each other’s lives better
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@carlosandresmirandafabila9951 · 3 months ago
My struggle with friendships is mainly because they feel one-sided. I'm tired of mantaining that kind of "relationships"
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@MWSTU · 3 months ago (edited)
I had 10+ friends from 18-26, none of them ever went above and beyond for me like I did for them. Now at 33, I have no “friends” but I have my daughter and wife, haven’t been happier in my life than I am right now.
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@s1_str · 3 months ago
The soul out of everything is being sucked 😭
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