People-Pleaser To Unbothered In 10 Steps

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  @bethanythomas5876 · 9 months ago

  I've been listening for over a year now and last night had a situation that would have seriously sent me into a spiral even 8 months ago. I went to bed, slept well, woke up, set a boundary, and now I'm listening to you whilst doing skin care and healthy breakfast. Thank you thank you for guiding me to be a better version of myself.

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• CE

  @Celestial-Grace-1 · 9 months ago

  You are not responsible for other people’s emotions! That is why you feel so exhausted!

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  @PrestonWilliams-m1p · 5 months ago

  Bad marriage is the end of a woman’s life. I wouldn’t say I made the wrong choice because my husband was once loving and caring till the devil showed it’s ugly face in our marriage. But today it’s all history because I choose to let fatherabulu  intervene in my marital life. The funny thing is talking to him isn’t difficult at all, u can always call him if you’re having doubts. He’s tested and trusted

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  @zivamatevzic2440 · 9 months ago

  Eastern eu/Slavic girl here 👋 and I saw a meme once about our types of fathers. He is either not existing in your life or you wish he didn't in the first place. 😂

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  @jessicakeskemety22 · 8 months ago

  I just wanted to say, I’ve been following Margarita for 3 years now…her mindset has drastically changed my life, I left a dead neglectful marriage, dated and walked away from things not good for me, and am so much healthier and happier and FULFILLED. I’m so thankful for you girl, it doesn’t happen overnight and it’s okay to not always fully agree but, Margarita’s mindset is THE WAY to go. Love you girl ❤ thank you for making me a stronger woman, happier and healthier mom, and have met the love of my life who actually loves and prioritizes me. Thank you girl ❤❤❤

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• CI

  @cindybobindy3859 · 4 months ago

  Absent dad and absent mother here.  Thank you for what you do, Margarita.❤

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• SP

  @spacequeenruby · 9 months ago

  I come for the advise but stay for the comedy 🤣🤣 your examples always give me a good laugh.

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• CH

  @chloeyoung3576 · 9 months ago

  I just ended a 4 year relationship about a month ago. I ordered your book, read it in about 2 days and I have to say you’ve really changed my life with this one, I don’t have a lot of girlfriends to talk to, but my journal and my mom have gotten me through it. She’s now going to read The New Rules! ❤ I admire you!

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• GI

  @ginathedove7879 · 9 months ago

  This is the one non typical thing I experienced as a daugther of a Slavic father. He was always so loving and gentle, sweet, a perfect gentleman. Because of him I know love and always attracted only great men. Because of him it was always natural for me to expect the best. I am very grateful for that.

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  @Michele-ti1qe · 9 months ago

  My self worth was always so non existent that if a guy chose me, I'd accept it and settle for the relationship. It wasn't until an awful marriage, where i was mistreated, takem for granted, cheated on and discarded over and over, i learned this about myself. Never again! Now i choose who fits into MY story!!

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  @Derekh_HaLoki · 9 months ago

  Let&apos;s be honest<br><br>Ppl pleasing is simply being dishonest. &nbsp;We aren&apos;t honest enuf to tell the truth. &nbsp;So we dishonestly behave so as to take the path of least resistance <br><br>We call it ppl pleasing because it sounds prettier than calling it what it is, diahonesty

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  @Paryja538 · 8 months ago

  Polish/slavic girl here and I totally agree with everything u said about eastern father

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