Dream Girl vs Placeholder: The Feminine Energy List Every Woman Needs

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  @ofkgjsl · 11 months ago

  Don‘t beg, don‘t bribe them, don‘t belittle. Just be.

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• ME

  @Melissa-tz9hv · 11 months ago (edited)

  You had me at DELICIOUS BABY CHICKEN 😂

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• ME

  @meiguimeiguiwoaini · 11 months ago

  i've been saying that men who spend so much time on instagram is a red flag... you're so real for that, it IS embarrassing 😭

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• LI

  @lilithowl · 11 months ago

  Very astute observation that there's no point being financially independent if you're going to be emotionally dependant on him. Very good point, and yet another one I've not heard anyone else make.

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• ZE

  @ZenaZee · 11 months ago

  Brilliant ‘why is he on Instagram, go build a house’ lol… going to remember that one! Fabulous 😂❤

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• MW

  @MWroses · 11 months ago

  When I am eating in my car with no one around, inevitably, someone parks right next to me or facing me.  Ugh

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• JA

  @jahnavisahay8139 · 11 months ago

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=139">02:19</a> <br>Placeholder energy tries to prove value <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=261">04:21</a> <br>Placeholder accepts inconsistent efforts <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=372">06:12</a> <br>Overgiving to feel indispensable <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=515">08:35</a> <br>Staying silent to avoid conflict <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=679">11:19</a> <br>Boundaries create attraction <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=780">13:00</a> <br>Placeholder reads into breadcrumbs <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=861">14:21</a> <br>Placeholder avoids asking for more <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=920">15:20</a> <br>Collapsing desires vs holding standards <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1027">17:07</a> <br>Anxiety over withdrawal vs detachment <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1133">18:53</a> <br>Overexplaining vs owning choices <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1158">19:18</a> <br>Waiting to be chosen vs choosing <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1209">20:09</a> <br>Accepting situationships vs commitment <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1310">21:50</a> <br>Worth tied to attention vs self-worth <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1363">22:43</a> <br>Oversharing vs maintaining mystery <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1398">23:18</a> <br>Competing with other women vs confidence <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1459">24:19</a> <br>Feeling lucky vs owning worth <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-etqlRkchZI&amp;t=1489">24:49</a> <br>Settling vs walking away for self-respect

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• ME

  @meganlally537 · 11 months ago

  Low key comedian vibes 😂

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• SO

  @SouthernBelle323 · 11 months ago

  &quot;Now you&apos;re accepting inconsistency because he&apos;s the father of your child&quot; LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO girl. Gagged me

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• SI

  @simply_sophia · 11 months ago (edited)

  I spent a good chunk of my 20s 6 years with a boyfriend who would push boundaries and ask for money all the time. Even though he made almost triple than what I made. I can’t be a sucker again. Y’all pray for me. I don’t know why I did that to myself. Pick me energy for sure.

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• SO

  @soulofsibyl · 11 months ago

  ✨delicious baby chicken✨

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• LB

  @lbdsm · 11 months ago (edited)

  I live for your content margarita, this is the premium youtube I actually pay for.

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