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ADHD vs AUTISM: The big cleaning episode!

25K views · May 6, 2026 · People & Blogs

Comments · 291

  • @heavenshell83 · 4 months ago

    Rox: Cleaning never ends. - I felt that. Deeply.

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  • @artistonthespectrum · 4 months ago

    Being both ASD and ADHD means these debates happen in me all the time.

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  • @willjtc · 4 months ago

    I volunteer to be the AuDHD mascot in the middle that nods at everything both of you say. 😂😂😂

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  • @Dragoncelllo · 4 months ago

    My husband (ADHD) and I (undiagnosed something) have literally volunteered to be the permanent host for weekly DND just to force us to clean the house up every week.<br><br>It&apos;s of course done in a rush 1hr - 30min before guests arrive but hey we now have a regular cleaning schedule 😅

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  • @taosjeannie1 · 4 months ago

    I’m so lucky that I have found you two. I’m 70 and was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 36 by a psychiatrist. But I was seeing him for debilitating depression, and back then there was so little known about adults and women who had ADHD, that I attributed my quirks to personality failure, not ADHD. I had also been a high functioning ADHD person before my life was crushed by my depression, so I just didn’t give it much thought. My depression is under control, so it’s been a miracle to finally understand my ADHD and accept myself as is, and it’s all because of you two. Watching youtubes, etc, &nbsp;about the symptoms of ADHD just did not accomplish what you two have done for me. Thank you so much ❤

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  • @RedCaio · 4 months ago

    this ep had tension :(

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  • @dOniellewithanO · 4 months ago

    I absolutely want my house clean 100% of the time and hate the &quot;people are coming over, why did I let it get this way and not do this yesterday?&quot; Clean, but I absolutely require there to be a reason or I can&apos;t make a single decision on where or how to start or where to sort what and even if I do start, one item not fitting into my categories ruins my whole ability to continue

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  • @kpwxx · 4 months ago

    I laughed out loud so hard at Rich&apos;s &quot;I would just throw it away&quot; after Rox&apos;s beautiful description of the joy of nostalgia (which is so relatable - this complicated web of thoughts and feelings, it&apos;s lovely!!)

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  • @christinak1053 · 3 months ago

    I&apos;m sat here crying. I&apos;m ADHD and my husband is on the spectrum. The thing we fight about the most is cleaning. When Rox described getting lost in the nostalgia, I&apos;ve never heard my own self explained so well. Thank you so much! ❤❤

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  • @lizl1407 · 4 months ago

    My favorite luxury is paying someone to clean my house every other week. &nbsp;It means I only need to keep up with dishes and laundry in between and that&apos;s so much more manageable. It was much less expensive than I thought it would be and it makes that part of life so much easier!!

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  • @xxdr5xx · 4 months ago

    I’d say Rox actually saves money by getting her items delivered. She’d absolutely spend so much more by going to the store due to buying random irrelevant goods 😂 plus time=money, it’d get done some much faster

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  • @LunaPanda1 · 4 months ago

    I am Audhd, I am obsessed with cleaning by that I mean researching it... 😂

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