ADHD vs AUTISM: The big cleaning episode!
25K views · May 6, 2026 · People & Blogs
Comments · 291
@heavenshell83 · 4 months ago
Rox: Cleaning never ends. - I felt that. Deeply.
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@artistonthespectrum · 4 months ago
Being both ASD and ADHD means these debates happen in me all the time.
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@willjtc · 4 months ago
I volunteer to be the AuDHD mascot in the middle that nods at everything both of you say. 😂😂😂
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@Dragoncelllo · 4 months ago
My husband (ADHD) and I (undiagnosed something) have literally volunteered to be the permanent host for weekly DND just to force us to clean the house up every week.<br><br>It's of course done in a rush 1hr - 30min before guests arrive but hey we now have a regular cleaning schedule 😅
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@taosjeannie1 · 4 months ago
I’m so lucky that I have found you two. I’m 70 and was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 36 by a psychiatrist. But I was seeing him for debilitating depression, and back then there was so little known about adults and women who had ADHD, that I attributed my quirks to personality failure, not ADHD. I had also been a high functioning ADHD person before my life was crushed by my depression, so I just didn’t give it much thought. My depression is under control, so it’s been a miracle to finally understand my ADHD and accept myself as is, and it’s all because of you two. Watching youtubes, etc, about the symptoms of ADHD just did not accomplish what you two have done for me. Thank you so much ❤
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@RedCaio · 4 months ago
this ep had tension :(
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@dOniellewithanO · 4 months ago
I absolutely want my house clean 100% of the time and hate the "people are coming over, why did I let it get this way and not do this yesterday?" Clean, but I absolutely require there to be a reason or I can't make a single decision on where or how to start or where to sort what and even if I do start, one item not fitting into my categories ruins my whole ability to continue
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@kpwxx · 4 months ago
I laughed out loud so hard at Rich's "I would just throw it away" after Rox's beautiful description of the joy of nostalgia (which is so relatable - this complicated web of thoughts and feelings, it's lovely!!)
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@christinak1053 · 3 months ago
I'm sat here crying. I'm ADHD and my husband is on the spectrum. The thing we fight about the most is cleaning. When Rox described getting lost in the nostalgia, I've never heard my own self explained so well. Thank you so much! ❤❤
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@lizl1407 · 4 months ago
My favorite luxury is paying someone to clean my house every other week. It means I only need to keep up with dishes and laundry in between and that's so much more manageable. It was much less expensive than I thought it would be and it makes that part of life so much easier!!
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@xxdr5xx · 4 months ago
I’d say Rox actually saves money by getting her items delivered. She’d absolutely spend so much more by going to the store due to buying random irrelevant goods 😂 plus time=money, it’d get done some much faster
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@LunaPanda1 · 4 months ago
I am Audhd, I am obsessed with cleaning by that I mean researching it... 😂
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