How to choose yourself so deeply you become dangerously attractive
349K views · Sep 2, 2026 · Entertainment
Comments · 364
@AaronDoughty44 · 3 weeks ago · pinned
also here is the live event coming up in sedona oct 28-30! <a href="https://themagneticchallenge.com/mgy-join-1">https://themagneticchallenge.com/mgy-join-1</a>
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@teresafraser3049 · 3 weeks ago
Ever since I stopped abandoning myself I created a magical existence ✨️
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@Giuliana-z1e · 4 weeks ago
Over the past two years I’ve applied this and my life has changed. Not in a dramatic way but I have more time for me and I let go of the guilt of having to do everything for everyone.
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@WillzGotSkillz · 3 weeks ago
This guy is now my favourite YouTuber, the therapist we never knew we needed. Now I’m in a happy and committed relationship with my crush. 😊
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@MsOrganic1 · 3 weeks ago (edited)
I declared 6 month ago I was not taking on other people's negative emotions, sarcasm towards me, or weird energy around me when I am just breathing. My initiation to this was excruciating. I accepted to being the villain in one situation to choose me. Felt like I was being pulled through the eye of a needle. I am exactly where Aaron is talking about. This video resonates with me.
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@refreshingtwist · 3 weeks ago
Someone once explained boundaries to me like this, "It's not so much about other people respecting your boundaries as it is about YOU respecting/ honouring your boundaries." Meaning, there needs to be consequences for people that overstep your boundaries and YOU need to enforce them. If you've told someone once, twice, thrice - what the boundary is that they have crossed.... well, now you need to decide what the consequence is and actually stick to it. That's on you. Perhaps it is going no contact. Or very limited contact, etc. But you hold the power. I like this explanation.
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@Logan-k6f5r · 4 weeks ago
Yesssss. Stop abandoning g yourself and choose to be the REAL you! Youll attract real love into your life like a magnet!
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@Gringavaitecontar · 3 weeks ago
I stop abandoning myself for SHORT TERM pleasure, like guys, who at the end would not choose me! Now I chose me!! my comany!! my purpose!
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@Gee360 · 3 days ago
Letting people sit with their tension really resonated with me. Then that tension ends up in anger towards the self...it all makes sense now.
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@Nutraoraa · 3 weeks ago
The most dangerous form of self-abandonment is when it feels like love. Doctor Sautra’s book gets into this idea that a pattern can become so familiar you stop experiencing it as a pattern and start calling it “who I am.” That’s the part that gets unsettling. Choosing yourself isn’t just confidence, it’s catching the old script before it makes another decision for you. Once you see that, “becoming attractive” almost feels like a side effect of no longer abandoning your own center.
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@adaalexia7 · 8 days ago
This stored energy and fear/anger towards our old patterns, hurts as h.....! Thank you for being here 🙏
@lumosan304 · 2 weeks ago
You sound so much more calmer and present in these recent videos Aaron. I've been following this channel for many years, and the evolution of your message delivery is astounding ✨☘️💯
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