Borderline Female: Predator or Prey? (with Christopher Bronson, MD)
50K views · Apr 30, 2025 · People & Blogs
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@MrScovanx · 9 months ago
Whoever thought borderlines had a high degree of empathy clearly never dated one.
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@miller2126 · 1 year ago
Predator or prey? Just run man
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@gregorydoyle4804 · 1 year ago
My ex bpd has all but destroyed me. But my god I miss her. One hell of a drug. Excruciating withdrawal.
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@thetraveller6578 · 1 year ago
You cannot fix her, period. it's waste of your time.
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@dianagonzalez3899 · 1 year ago
Sam Vaknin is the only one who really knows how the mind of a borderline works. It's incredible how well Sam Vaknin knows us. It's almost a miracle to discover someone who knows us like that.
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@robbytheartist3997 · 1 year ago (edited)
My ex wife splits on her own son and my daughter. Its wicked crazy. The son is 13 and he is in adolescence which means hes been distancing himself. Well come to find out, that triggers her abandonment. Its brutal what ive seen her do and say to thay child. And he just retaliate, with the same energy. Mind you he is autistic. I trying to get custody of my daughter right now, but its very difficult when she moved so far away. As for her son, i pray he makes it out alive. He's going to so messed up, it's sad.
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@benkelly5930 · 1 year ago
It doesn't matter what you do for people with bpd, if they dont activly seek to understand their issues they will continue the unhealthy behavior until it destorys every relationship they have even their relationship with themselves, <br><br>You cannot help them because they will destroy you. <br><br>You are not strong enough to sustain constantly being emotionally abused without having any consequences <br><br>The emotional blackmail and manipulation will eventually destroy your sense of self and once theres nothing left to destroy they will blame everythjng on you and leave <br><br>And you will spend months or possibly years questioning your reality while they just go on with their life
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@HistoryasaSign · 1 year ago
If anyone is erratic, rude, unpredictable, disrespectful, arrogant repeatedly and is not willing to listen or accept any feedback or criticism. Run for the hills. Don’t waste your time by watching YouTube videos to make your decision.
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@Liz-l3b · 1 year ago
The perfectly mentally healthy (sarcasm) Richard Grannon and all his borderline exes springs to mind 😂
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@dianagonzalez3899 · 1 year ago
He's the best, I've never heard anyone talk like him about us borderlines.
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@LordyGeordie · 1 year ago
I promise you this, the red flags you ignore with a borderline will be the exact same red flags that will end the ‘relationship’. You will 100% look back and be disgusted with yourself with what you tolerated once you’ve been through the devaluation. The ‘good times’ are nothing more than the bare minimum you would expect in a relationship but seem so much better when you’re comparing it to the frequent disrespectful, crazy making, abusive, push pull devaluation you went through with it
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@bikiesbyher · 1 year ago
Predator or prey? Depends what mood I'm in.
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