When men QUIETLY decide you're the one: the stage most women misread

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  @fareenashofficial · 7 months ago (edited) · pinned

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  @YourOrganizedAuntie · 7 months ago

  Oh my word, the way “The Stage Where Men Quietly Decide You’re ‘The One’” popped up had me nearly dropping my mug because goodness, it dragged me straight back to the moment I realized men don’t actually make this decision with fireworks or a speech; they do it in absolute silence while you’re over here analyzing emojis like it’s a full‑time job. I remember sitting on my couch one night whispering “Luise… stop refreshing the messages, he’s either in or he’s not,” and my inner voice replied “Sweetheart, he’s probably just eating a sandwich.” And ha, that’s when it hit me: men have this hilarious, mysterious stage where they suddenly start paying attention to things like how you talk to the waiter or how you handle a minor inconvenience, and meanwhile you’re just trying not to trip over your own shoe. I once had a guy tell me he knew I was “the one” the day I calmly fixed a wobbly chair with a butter knife. A butter knife. I thought I was just being productive; he thought he’d witnessed a miracle. And honestly, that’s the funny part: the moment you stop performing and start communicating like a real human, that’s when everything clicks. You’re not auditioning, you’re just living, and somehow that’s what makes you magnetic. So hooray to you for diving into this topic, because trust me, once you understand that the “quiet decision” usually happens while you’re minding your business and being your unbothered, emotionally intelligent self, you start walking around like “Boom, handled, I’m the plot twist.”

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  @debbiewitthoft5339 · 7 months ago

  Women need to be asking and observing their mates as well.

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  @KimDsmom · 6 months ago

  Met this man six years ago. &nbsp;I’m 60 now, and he’s 68. &nbsp;It can be complicated at this age. &nbsp;Sometimes I wish we had met years ago, but God put us in each other’s path, at this time, for a reason. &nbsp;Regardless of what ends up happening, or not happening, it’s a blessing, especially at this age.

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  @willowmoon5063 · 7 months ago

  We women need to be healthy and happy in ourselves first and foremost in order to be truly happy and healthy in a relationship with an overall healthy man. Ladies do the inner work.

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  @Brawlstarsjesterchester · 7 months ago

  Perfect timing as I have asked my boyfriend to step up and he responded<br>So well but then I felt uncomfortable receiving- but this video allowed me to stay in my feminine and accept the gifts he has brought me graciously

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  @TransformwithNadia · 6 months ago

  I know how to self regulate. What I want to know is how to recognize a man who knows how to co-regulate and clock the ones who don’t.

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  @doranvee5944 · 7 months ago

  As a man, I think you are making a lot of really valid points!

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  @irinageorgieva9215 · 3 months ago

  Girl im 39 and you teached me something i shpuld of know very long time ago.Thank you for your effort you are having amazing mission in life ❤

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  @enzab200 · 7 months ago

  Hello. Thank you for another informative video. I was married for 21 years. My ex- husband and I separated 3 years ago and now divorced. I am now ready and would like to have a committed relationship but do not want to marry again. I actually really do not think I even want to live with a man ever again. I enjoy living on my own and feel very free and happy but would like to have a partner who I love/loves me and share life experiences together. Is this common? Can you speak about this and help guide women with this mindset on how to navigate such a relationship?

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  @zsszikszai5180 · 7 months ago

  Already love the vibe! The subtitles, the set up, everything!

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  @Priya_the_princess · 7 months ago

  Just like a high class women i stayed single for so many years and finally loved someone but did not chase. Hope it works❤

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