7 Sex Mistakes Almost Every Gay Man Makes
84K views · Aug 2, 2026 · Education
Comments · 112
@mspig5925 · 1 month ago
Just don’t overthink it<br>Just do it
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@tommunyon2874 · 1 month ago
I will turn 75 this month. Over the past couple of months I have been told on 3 separate occasions by 3 different people how handsome I am. Each time I've been blown away. I know I am not repulsively ugly, but I have a different concept of what handsome is. I have reached a point to where I am comfortable with who I am, but it does give me a boost, and makes me think that I am projecting positive energy that has its own degree of attractiveness.
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@chelovek-bez-nika · 1 month ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=91">1:31</a> Perfectionism<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=206">3:26</a> Performing instead of being present<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=294">4:54</a> Not knowing what turns you on<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=391">6:31</a> Body shame<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=518">8:38</a> The same sexual script<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=606">10:06</a> You are looking to your partner for your pleasure<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGc7LLp78Dc&t=692">11:32</a> You are using sex for validation
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@ivaniveljic9701 · 1 month ago
I think a lot of guys find it easier to not judge someone who's turned on by an out-there kink than someone who's turned on by a handsome, masculine & muscular guy. Now that's just internalized homophobia and *insert-a-label-here"
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@davidferencz9640 · 1 month ago
New Subscriber. This is succinct and spot on. The title could well be: "7 Sex Mistakes Almost Everyone Makes". I sent this to a straight friend who thanked me for it.
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@barneysrubble · 1 month ago
I'm really glad I found your channel. You are wise and perform a valuable service. I'm 69 and single and haven't had much going on sexually for a number of years, but I am doing some in-depth spiritual work (breathing, meditation, plant medicine) and my sexual energy is back, baby! Now I need some compatible partners. Just putting that out there.
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@ItaliaSoCal79 · 1 month ago
Love the point about mixing it up. I feel like some of my long term relationships ended because it was the same thing over and over, got bored and stale.
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@LevRaphael · 1 month ago
This advice applies to the psychological/emotional planes of our lives, starting with perfectionism.
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@chargermopar · 1 month ago
Moving to the next level- being asexual is my way of living. No one is ever attractive enough and people who are attracted to others are never the type for the person they want. All a rigged game and not playing it is the best way to be free.
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@markrichards6863 · 1 month ago
We're in our 70s. "Can you look at this thing on my leg?" Had replaced foreplay. It's a real wood killer.
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@taylorhillard4868 · 1 month ago
"Or invite a third" idk. Maybe its just me, but doesnt anyone else feel like the homogenous normalization (almost to the point of complete standardization) of promiscuity and infidelity in the gay community is part of what leads to most of these problems to begin with? <br><br>Like doesnt it just validate the insecurities to just throw up your hands and say "yeah actually you are insufficient, we need to find another body to fill in because yours isnt enough" <br><br>And i get that its a kink for some people to be in that situation, but its not going to be helpful for anyone else.
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@TruckzNTrainz · 1 month ago
I bet this guy is fire in bed … thanks for the video much appreciated
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