Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST
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Learn actionable tips and tools you can use to improve your relationships today. Tom Bruett is a Licensed Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist with a practice in California and Colorado and author of the book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men. He loves helping gay couples improve their relationships with practical blue prints for success. YouTube is not therapy. Views shared here are not meant to replace support from a licensed professional. If you need support, please find it! You’re worth it! If you’re struggling with thoughts of self-harm or suicide, please know you’re not alone. I’m not able to offer crisis support through comments, but help is available. U.S.: Call or text 988 International: findahelpline.com
Do queer couples need a queer therapist?
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 1.7K views · 2 weeks ago
The Trauma BEHIND Addiction for LGBTQ+ People | Interview with Araya Baker
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 355 views · 1 day ago
7 Stages of Gay Relationship Development (Hint, hint...this will help if you're feeling stuck!)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 12K views · 1 year ago
Why Gay Men Stay Single- 5 Common Gay Dating Mistakes
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 44K views · 10 months ago
Why We NEED Better Gay Sex Education | Interview with Aidan Wharton
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 4K views · 3 weeks ago
10 Gay Dating Red Flags You MUST Avoid!
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 14K views · 1 year ago
Gay Men Have a Consent Problem. Here's Why.
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 5.6K views · 5 days ago
The Gay Bottom’s Guide to Better Sex (from a Sex Therapist)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 21K views · 2 months ago
A Therapist's Guide to Addressing Mismatched Desire in Session | Laura Grossman & Katya Stark
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 403 views · 4 months ago
Communicating Better Won't Fix Your Relationship (Try THIS instead)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 1.6K views · 5 months ago
Gay Men, Tantra & the Power of Touch | Interview with DaddyGuru
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 3.2K views · 2 weeks ago
Why Gay Men Fall in Love With Straight Men (And What To DO About It)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 7K views · 3 months ago
The 4 Most Common Sexual Fantasies Gay Men Have (And Why They Matter)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 66K views · 4 months ago
9 Bottoming Tips That Will Shock You | From a Sex Therapist's Perspective
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 56K views · 4 months ago
Differentiation 101: How To Stay In Love Without Losing Yourself (from a couples therapist)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 1.5K views · 3 months ago
The Controversial Issues Dividing Gay Men Right Now | Interview with Michael Pezzullo
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 15K views · 4 weeks ago
The Gay Sex Ed You NEEDED But Never Got(from a sex therapist)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 183K views · 9 months ago
Gay Men & Open Relationships: 5 Truths You’re Not Told (from a gay therapist)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 8K views · 1 year ago
Why Are Gay Men Over 50 so Lonely? (And 5 Steps to Overcome Loneliness)
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 24K views · 9 months ago
Tom Bruett, LMFT- Relationship and Individual Therapy Colorado and California
Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST · 183 views · 2 years ago