The 5 Pivotal Moments When a Narcissist Will Drop Their Mask

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• NB

  @nb00 · 3 years ago

  1. Moving in together<br>2. Getting engaged<br>3. Right after marriage<br>4. Pregnancy <br>5. After kids <br><br>- N likes the chase. Once in life - need to devalue you to feel better about themselves. <br>- if attention isn&apos;t on N N will look elsewhere

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• PR

  @princhipessa1969 · 2 years ago

  Don’t move in with someone for years! &nbsp;My ex’s mask dropped immediately! I bought my own place and no one is moving in with me! Ever.

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• TH

  @thrivingnow7395 · 3 years ago

  When you catch them blatantly cheating or they let the truth slip out about betrayal = violent rage.

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• GR

  @greylizard1040 · 3 years ago

  6. When they are tired.<br>7. When they have just secured their name to joint assets or property of some kind and no longer need to pretend as much that they like that other person or their family.

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• MI

  @miracleaustin9708 · 3 years ago

  6. If you become sick or injured.. they devalue and discard because you are no longer able to take care of them or give them what they want. At that point you are just an inconvenience.

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• WE

  @wendythompson3291 · 3 years ago (edited)

  My husband switched 2 days after getting married. &nbsp;I was told in a mean way, &quot;If I don&apos;t get sex I will find it elsewhere.&quot; &nbsp;What a shock!! I asked him where this is coming from, and there is no response or explanation. We had dated 4 years, nothing stated prior.

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• LO

  @lobsterbisque7567 · 3 years ago

  I was fortunate, I walked away from my ex as soon as she started devaluing me. &nbsp;After I walked away, I did research into narcissism, and I found out that she was a narc. &nbsp;The relationship lasted 4mos., and after I spoke to all my loved ones about the conversations &amp; texts we shared, and they all told me she manipulating me in very subtle ways. &nbsp;Thankfully, She could only reach me through my phone. &nbsp;And I changed my number shortly after walking away. &nbsp;I&apos;m fortunate to get away from her unscathed, with no serious commitments that she could leverage to hoover me back. &nbsp;I feel so much better now that I&apos;m free of her

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• MC

  @MC-cz5qd · 3 years ago

  So disgusting that someone would discard the person carrying their child. Unbelievable, unforgivable. Makes me want to believe Karma’s a thing.

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• LA

  @larac0 · 3 years ago

  The thoughts of narcissistic men around women pregnant with their babies are beyond disgusting.... for the sake of humanity, I hope more people heal from these toxic patterns

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• H.

  @h.e9871 · 3 years ago

  Or when you get ill and/or are going through a rough time, such as the loss of a parent!

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• MA

  @manzanitaverde5455 · 2 years ago

  Yes, I would never have thought that someone that I spent years with would just stop talking to me one day out of the blue...it&apos;s taking me a long time to accept that this was his way of discarding me.

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• ST

  @stephanieschulze179 · 3 years ago (edited)

  You are so on the point. &nbsp;The engagement, the wedding(it was more about him &amp; his buddies pulling pranks) horrible night &amp; entire honeymoon which he invited his family to, when I told him I was &nbsp;pregnant --- he actually told me &quot; maybe you aren&apos;t!&quot; Yeah! Also more distant when he changed careers! I felt left behind &amp; was only there to be his mother &amp; take care of him. So wish I had left SOONER!!!

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