When an Avoidant Is Emotionally Attached, This One Sign Will Always Appear.
9.4K views · Dec 27, 2025 · People & Blogs
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@Mary-t2p6p · 9 months ago
This is the yuckiest sounding relationship I have ever heard described.
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@maynard3legs · 9 months ago (edited)
All you do is endure and dont react, reassure or offer advice. Avoid conflict at all costs. Be steady and they might smile at you honestly or hug you here and there. Sechs may or may not happen and thats ok (if its not, tough.)Enjoy the breadcrumbs when you can. Yay avoidants!
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@PianoMatronNeeNee · 9 months ago (edited)
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_lsBRL1Sm8&t=557">9:17</a> thank you for clarifying ❤Very stressful being in love with an avoidant
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@Crazygoodcooking · 8 months ago
My ghosted me for 4 days, then, when I called him out on it, he dumped. Like he needed to make sure I felt the pain. What a d$&k
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@WobyTide · 9 months ago
I'm an avoidant woman, for very good reason. Don't rule us all out, we can and do love, but it takes time. We need to feel safe, bc we spent our whole lives experiencing closeness as threat
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@vidasnyder · 7 months ago
It has taken quite a long time, but I am seeing it now
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@Alchemistwarda · 9 months ago
First they will walk away 😂
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@EmmEmm-333 · 5 months ago
A thoroughly understood relationship with an avoidant, is feeling totally free and autonome while knowing somebody cares about you, and that full trust exists between each other.<br>No big shows. No demonstrations of emotions. Just support and heart warmth - a consistent presence and care.<br>Try finding that elsewhere... beside loving parents if you are lucky... good luck!
@miawilliams6653 · 9 months ago
This did help. I see it now. Someone showed that to me. 😮😮😮😮😮😮❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you.
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@DebraMichaud-ec5sf · 2 months ago
I see it; i get it; ive been calm and patient he checks all the boxes for caring for me. Still not easy
@catherinecsrrjfave7256 · 2 months ago
I see it now
@emgayotye · 9 months ago
Then they shouldn't date anyone until they work on their trauma and healthy coping mechanisms because all they do is hurt. They're emotional leeches. I watched the whole video and after dating avoidants. No theyre not worth patience. THEY need to prove they're worth it by doing the work getting mental health and learn how to love more healthier. Theyre selfish and inconsiderate. Most of the time many dont want to do better so yeah, please get help avoidants. Stop hurting people.
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