Avoidants NEED to FEEL this UNPLEASANT Feeling to Fall in Love & Commit ｜ Clara ｜ Attachment Sty

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• GN

  @gnnn3492 · 2 months ago

  That type of girls draw you into a big battle. If you want to improve yourself, get one because they are not easy yo deal with 😂

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• KI

  @kingalphadogg · 3 months ago

  This was absolutely amazing and yes, she is worth it!! The answer is yes all around and she is undeniably allowing her emotions and feelings to experience true love. She is uncomfortable BUT realizes that vulnerability is more important than losing me. I love this woman and she loves me. Ive been studying and learning her avoidant style and helped me to be able to know how to communicate, ehat she needs, what I need to as well as not need to do and overall, its about patience, understanding and love. God led me to this woman and we both know it. Yhis divine connection is meant to be. ❤🙏☝🏾

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• KR

  @kristyjaques5946 · 3 months ago

  Thank You for helping me understand 🙏

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• LA

  @Ladoga01 · 3 months ago

  Girls chose when to be avoidant. Men, chose yourself first.

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• PE

  @peach3384 · 2 months ago (edited)

  😮❤ thank you. As i'm listening to this i was thinking  my avoidant boyfriend when he f**ked up i put up bounderies and told him to end what we've started, pulled back and no contact. That's the first time i did it after a month of no contact, maybe he can't take anymore the deafening silence between us, he cracks it first haha. He texted me first. I win😄

• IB

  @ibrahimzakaria4360 · 3 months ago

  This video was amazing, learned a lot.

• WI

  @willblackett4709 · 3 months ago

  Vulnerability is sexy<br>Masks are not <br>Excellent content <br>Ai voice sounds great

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• TH

  @TheAetherspeak · 3 months ago

  You prioritized their needs when You were vulnerable, thanks... but wait My victimhood there&apos;s more I need You to fix! Me I just saw someone I cared for with a need and I wanted to be feel steady through this kindness after the relational trama I&apos;ve endured... Now that You see that vulnerability You hit with anger because I see You have no intention to reciprocate and being magnanimous is an easy aversion. &nbsp;I was misguided to help but not wrong to recognize the personal need to know help could exist for my own peace &amp; sought to be that change for myself in that moment for the benifit of another whome I shared empathy... that continued expectation for it is toxic and unempathertic dependency and it triggers avoidance from abuse victims

• DA

  @davidharrison1502 · 3 months ago

  Bullshit. &nbsp;How many &quot;Avoidants&quot; have you encountered? Have you considered the guy is showing respect by leaving you and avoiding you? In terms of the guy not saying to your face; &quot;you annoy me, you are a waste of my time and energy, your childish crap is pathetically draining, go paint your face and dress like a clown for someone else, go bother someone else, go use someone else for your validation.&quot; &quot;I&apos;ll keep my peace, my heart, sanity, house, and retirement; so, go away and manipulate some other guy.&quot; It is not fear when the guy does the math, in which little daddy&apos;s-girl princess assumes she can be a pet, instead of a responsible and accountable partner. In fact, he is protecting her from the truth and actual conflict of not saying: &quot;girl get out of my face, take your disrespect, and your need for food, shelter, clothes, entertainment, and insurance to some guy who buys the deceptive, neurotic chaos that you offer.&quot; It is not a loss of autonomy or stability, in fact that man is saying; &quot;I do not want to pick up the pieces of baggage from your sorry soul, or your parents, or your past...&quot;