Living Alone at 37 — Am I Lonely? 🇯🇵 | A Quiet Izakaya Night at Home
144K views · Sep 4, 2026 · People & Blogs
Comments · 418
@Tuma-dailyinjapan · 3 weeks ago · pinned
Thank you for watching! 🙏💖<br>Do you find quiet nights alone comforting or lonely? 🌙<br><br>Tell me in the comments!
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@taryndactyl1988 · 3 weeks ago
I am 38 and single, alone but not lonely! Build the life you want. 😊
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@MalikAYYAN-d3w · 3 weeks ago
Am I alone?’ Maybe tonight the house is quiet, the table is set for one, and there’s no one sitting across from you—but I hope you remember that being physically alone and being truly alone are two very different things. ❤️ At 37, there is nothing sad about creating a peaceful life for yourself and finding comfort in your own little rituals. And when you share these moments with us, they become something more than a solitary evening. Your followers are here, watching, listening, and sending you warmth through this screen. So enjoy your quiet night, your delicious food, and your peaceful little corner of the world. You may be sitting alone, but you certainly aren’t facing the night alone. 🌙✨A quiet night at home can sometimes make the world feel very still, but I hope you know that stillness isn’t the same as loneliness. 🌙 There’s something wonderfully human about sitting down to a meal, enjoying your own company, and letting the evening unfold slowly. And perhaps the sweetest part is that, even while you’re physically by yourself, there are countless people on the other side of the screen sharing this little moment with you. Your followers are with you in their own way—laughing with you, enjoying the atmosphere, and quietly wishing you happiness. So tonight, don’t ask whether you’re alone. Look around at this beautiful community you’ve created. You have people here who care, and your quiet evening has reached far beyond the walls of your home. ❤️🍜✨ Thank you so much for this video 💕. Love you dear friend ❤😊. Have a great weekend 😊.
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@udayinindia · 3 weeks ago
I can understand why so many people appreciate your videos. There’s something very peaceful about the way you capture ordinary life in Japan without needing to say much. The quiet moments, simple routines, and beautiful visuals make your videos feel almost like a little escape from the noisy world. I’m also creating simple daily-life videos from India, and watching your work reminds me that you don’t need a big story to make people feel something. I’m really happy I discovered your channel. ❤️🇯🇵🇮🇳
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@cindydo8664 · 11 days ago
I’m 62 alone, and happy create the life i want, and most important is my peace. I always find thing to do and don’t feel lonely at all.
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@implorapace · 3 weeks ago
Thank you for taking the time to film and edit this whole video. I loved the sweet melodic tunes and my favourite part is the kind subtitles. I find it soothing to read about your day, your thoughts and feeling. Thank you for being such a comfort in my life 🫶
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@ametsuji · 2 days ago
こんにちは、Tumaさん!<br><br>I'm 42 and building my life alone too. I have friends, for sure, but I consider myself a loner, and I think that's fine. It took me a while to see it that way, though. For a long time I felt I had to explain why I went to restaurants or made plans on my own, and now it's simply how I enjoy life.<br><br>That's why your videos feel so relatable. Your solo izakaya night looked perfect: cooking whatever you feel like, no rush, just good food and a drink. That's exactly my idea of a good evening.<br><br>I'm from Spain, and in a few weeks I'm travelling to Japan on my own. To some people, taking a trip like this alone sounds strange, but for me it's absolutely fine. I'll enjoy my own company.<br><br>Thank you for sharing these quiet moments. Take care!
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@SaschaMundt · 4 days ago
It is so calming and joyful to watch your videos. A sneak peek into another part of this world. Greetings from Germany. ☀️
@gabikoc8132 · 3 weeks ago
Best regards from Poland and city of Wroclaw <3 Being lonely is a state of mind and it does not depend on number of people beside you!
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@jarmanjjj · 6 days ago
your videos bring me much peace and comfort. thanks for sharing your life with us. ✌🫶✌
@nikkifangaiuiha6081 · 1 day ago
Thank you for sharing your not lonely your just getting to know what it’s like, Like this sometimes I feel to be on my own and not the hassle of hearing everyone else drama take care and be safe and happy 😊❤❤
@Chalk_Roses · 3 weeks ago
I hope she can feel that we are cheering with her when she has her drinks
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