I Haven't Been On A Date In Over A Year And I'm Fine With It
8K views · Sep 1, 2026 · People & Blogs
Comments · 233
@PowerJae · 4 weeks ago
14 years for me and I’m fine with it.
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@guitarman0365 · 4 weeks ago
A year ? Rookie numbers son.
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@Mick_Mars89 · 4 weeks ago
Haven't had anything with a woman in 9 years
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@michaeljablonowski5014 · 4 weeks ago
Over a year? I havent been on a date over 11 years 😂
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@captainfalconmain6576 · 4 weeks ago
Dates are not worth it
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@Fred_Durst-o7w · 4 weeks ago
Long story short: If an average guy wants an actual girlfriend, he's going to have to date down 2-3 points. So, a guy that looks like a 5 or a 6 is going to have to settle for a girl that looks like a 3. <br>I have seen average looking guys with average looking girlfriends. But, they tolerate a lot of abuse.
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@metalmykof-hs2sn · 4 weeks ago
Dating apps are horrible.
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@gotinogaden · 4 weeks ago
16 years.
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@FootPatrolAndAviationAustralia · 4 weeks ago
I've given up. There is more chance of me walking on the moon
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@Mrgoofy3219 · 9 days ago
Me since 19 years 😂😂<br>Welcome to the club man 🗿🗿
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@drop_messages6226 · 4 weeks ago
I was "done chasing" by age 35 for me. I was always a social outcast, so I knew the odds were against me since high school. I did very little dating, and I always felt like I really had to do a lot of work to keep the woman interested, so it was always a feeling of , am I entertaining enough, am I doing enough to make her want to stick around? My last relationship, which did not last long ended when I was 35. <br> I went on a solo road trip after the break up. In the back of my mind, I had the question, Should I keep trying to date (which I was never any good at, just mediocre) or should I stop chasing women? I came to the conclusion that I was too inexperienced, and too emotionally immature for dating. I was too far behind my peers in relationship experience, plus I was getting older, less energy for social drama. <br>So, I did what I should have done years prior. I stopped chasing.<br>I stopped chasing women ( if I meet one great, but I never lose sleep over being single)<br>I stopped chasing social approval. I have no need or desire for popularity<br>I stopped keeping up with the Jonses. I do not need much to be content in life.<br>I stopped chasing the "fear of missing out" I am now a middle aged man in my 40s. I am content with a less exciting life. I did traveling and rock concerts when I was younger, that is less important now
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@plumisland1070 · 4 weeks ago (edited)
A year is nothing. And if it isn't nothing, make it nothing.
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