Esther Perel’s Best Advice for Finding Love Today

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  @fmss6694 · 1 year ago

  “The right person at the wrong time is the wrong person.”… mind blowing!

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• JU

  @julesnoble · 1 year ago (edited)

  i found the love of my life at age 55. we are both disabled- he lives in scotland and I am from new york city. we will be marrying in a few months and i am relocating to scotland. My mom was right. She said I would find him. He is a beautiful soul and we met at the right time- when we both had been through so much heartbreak and trauma through our lives that the gratitude we have to have found each other is there and real. Two years and stronger then ever and more gratitude every day ..we are healing each other.we had both given up and were not looking when we found each other. no kids.

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• SA

  @SaltyTaffyFun · 1 year ago

  I’m 77, my husband passed in 2020. I never expected to have another romantic relationship. But my first college boyfriend has recently come into my life. He’s just as nice, kind and everything I found him to be 60 years ago. Thank God he was able to take me back.

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• M.

  @m.francoiseyargeau6318 · 1 month ago

  I know this is an older video, but seriously ! Nothing's more grounding, real, direct, confusion free, helpful and practically hopeful as a conversation with Esther P. !!

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• WA

  @warrenfoster11 · 1 year ago

  Let me summarise this conversation in one sentence.<br>Unrealistic expectations are preventing people from being happy.

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• DO

  @DontThinkPodcast · 10 months ago

  After years of loneliness, I met the one who makes me feel alive again. We may have scars, but together we turned pain into peace. Love truly found us when we stopped looking ♥

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• GA

  @gailsparrovv · 1 year ago (edited)

  “Soulmate has always been God, not a partner.” Needed this reminder. 🙏🏻

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• AM

  @AmyBotelho · 1 year ago

  I could listen to Esther talk about anything. &nbsp;Great conversation. &nbsp;I love the game idea to gently get into charged intimate conversations. &nbsp;Learned a lot. &nbsp;And Matthew - thank you for talking about &nbsp;love above 40 y.o. &nbsp;I&apos;m 52, single, never married and no kids and I like that my situation can be talked about with possibility and not like a disease. &nbsp;I own all that I have and all that I don&apos;t. I chose not to have kids. &nbsp;I think there are plusses and minuses to all intimate relationship scenarios. &nbsp;Like anything in life, if you tell yourself it&apos;s hopeless, you&apos;re right; and if you tell yourself there&apos;s unending possibilities, you&apos;re also right. &nbsp; Get out of your comfort zone and there is no end to the people you can meet, and yes, you will have to let go of the story you have about yourself and that takes effort. &nbsp; I appreciate the content both you and Esther are putting out there. &nbsp;It makes a difference. &nbsp;Love, A.

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• JU

  @juliea. · 1 year ago

  This video came at a perfect time for me. Two weeks ago a man approached me on the subway and we exchanged numbers. We texted for a week and discovered we have a lot in common. &nbsp;I finally asked if he saw it progressing to an in person date and he told me that he doesn&apos;t have time to date. It makes absolutely no sense to me.

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• KA

  @katherinegu8799 · 10 days ago

  I really wish interviewers gave Esther more airtime! she’s amazing

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  @haslindakasim110 · 1 year ago

  Both of them are my favorite people to hear about relationships from, and I have so much respect for the work they share, it is incredible.

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• HE

  @helenguy9475 · 1 year ago

  I love her, she makes so much sence, at nearly 67 years of age I thank her for her insight, your head create your world. I enjoy my life. She just enhances it.

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