Ellecia Paine
2.5K subscribers
Relationship Coach Ellecia Paine helps adventurous people break the social conditioning of monogamy and learn how to navigate healthy alternative relationship styles such as ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory and swinging. She helps them move through the challenges like jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens their relationships, deepens trust and communication, and leaves them feeling confident. As the host of the podcast Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Ellecia believes in courageously challenging the status quo and empowering people to create relationships that work for the real people in those relationships. Throughout the past 10 years living in an ethically non-monogamous relationship while working as a sex, love, and relationship coach, Ellecia has acquired valuable insight and a unique ability to share this information with her clients and audience in a way that hits home while leaving them feeling validated and whole.

The Truth Hurts — But Hiding It Hurts Worse | How to Be Honest in Polyamory
Ellecia Paine · 3.5K views · 11 months ago

The Brutal Truth About Open Relationships | Polyamory & Non-Monogamy Coaching Podcast
Ellecia Paine · 28K views · 1 year ago

Small Moments That Trigger MASSIVE Jealousy - Here's Why
Ellecia Paine · 945 views · 5 months ago

Old Baggage or Real Issue? A Therapist Explains Non-Monogamous Relationships
Ellecia Paine · 1.9K views · 10 months ago

Dating Separately: The Truth Couples Need to Hear About Polyamory
Ellecia Paine · 4.1K views · 9 months ago

Saying Yes to Non-Monogamy with Natalie Davis
Ellecia Paine · 4K views · 8 months ago

Is Collaboration The Key to Thriving Non-Monogamous Relationships?
Ellecia Paine · 340 views · 1 year ago

5 Hidden Costs of DIY Non-Monogamy | Avoid These 5 Relationship Mistakes Ep. 101
Ellecia Paine · 9.1K views · 1 year ago

What Experts Don't Want You to Know About Desiring More in Your Relationship
Ellecia Paine · 317 views · 1 year ago

The Hard Feelings Trap: Why Struggle Doesn't Mean Failure
Ellecia Paine · 550 views · 5 months ago

Dating Someone Taken | The Polyamory Conversation Nobody Has
Ellecia Paine · 1K views · 5 months ago

When Your Partner Dismisses Your Feelings, This Happens
Ellecia Paine · 393 views · 8 months ago

Relationship Anxiety in Polyamory: It’s Not Just You | Nope! We're Not Monogamous Podcast
Ellecia Paine · 3K views · 8 months ago

My Marriage Ended. That Doesn’t Mean It Failed.
Ellecia Paine · 474 views · 8 days ago

Jealousy Conversations: How to Stay Calm When You Want to Explode
Ellecia Paine · 680 views · 4 months ago

5 Simple Tools for Profound Intimacy in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 104
Ellecia Paine · 633 views · 1 year ago

The Secret to Honest Non-Monogamy Talks!
Ellecia Paine · 532 views · 1 year ago

Still Jealous in Polyamory? It’s Not What You Think
Ellecia Paine · 6K views · 11 months ago