Ellecia Paine

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Relationship Coach Ellecia Paine helps adventurous people break the social conditioning of monogamy and learn how to navigate healthy alternative relationship styles such as ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory and swinging. She helps them move through the challenges like jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens their relationships, deepens trust and communication, and leaves them feeling confident. As the host of the podcast Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Ellecia believes in courageously challenging the status quo and empowering people to create relationships that work for the real people in those relationships. Throughout the past 10 years living in an ethically non-monogamous relationship while working as a sex, love, and relationship coach, Ellecia has acquired valuable insight and a unique ability to share this information with her clients and audience in a way that hits home while leaving them feeling validated and whole.

35:55

The Truth Hurts — But Hiding It Hurts Worse | How to Be Honest in Polyamory

Ellecia Paine · 3.5K views · 11 months ago

32:12

The Brutal Truth About Open Relationships | Polyamory & Non-Monogamy Coaching Podcast

Ellecia Paine · 28K views · 1 year ago

12:12

Small Moments That Trigger MASSIVE Jealousy - Here's Why

Ellecia Paine · 945 views · 5 months ago

44:37

Old Baggage or Real Issue? A Therapist Explains Non-Monogamous Relationships

Ellecia Paine · 1.9K views · 10 months ago

44:56

Dating Separately: The Truth Couples Need to Hear About Polyamory

Ellecia Paine · 4.1K views · 9 months ago

45:17

Saying Yes to Non-Monogamy with Natalie Davis

Ellecia Paine · 4K views · 8 months ago

16:08

Is Collaboration The Key to Thriving Non-Monogamous Relationships?

Ellecia Paine · 340 views · 1 year ago

20:47

5 Hidden Costs of DIY Non-Monogamy | Avoid These 5 Relationship Mistakes Ep. 101

Ellecia Paine · 9.1K views · 1 year ago

13:33

What Experts Don't Want You to Know About Desiring More in Your Relationship

Ellecia Paine · 317 views · 1 year ago

10:56

The Hard Feelings Trap: Why Struggle Doesn't Mean Failure

Ellecia Paine · 550 views · 5 months ago

16:01

Dating Someone Taken | The Polyamory Conversation Nobody Has

Ellecia Paine · 1K views · 5 months ago

11:16

When Your Partner Dismisses Your Feelings, This Happens

Ellecia Paine · 393 views · 8 months ago

24:11

Relationship Anxiety in Polyamory: It’s Not Just You | Nope! We're Not Monogamous Podcast

Ellecia Paine · 3K views · 8 months ago

15:00

My Marriage Ended. That Doesn’t Mean It Failed.

Ellecia Paine · 474 views · 8 days ago

12:20

Jealousy Conversations: How to Stay Calm When You Want to Explode

Ellecia Paine · 680 views · 4 months ago

34:52

5 Simple Tools for Profound Intimacy in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 104

Ellecia Paine · 633 views · 1 year ago

17:37

The Secret to Honest Non-Monogamy Talks!

Ellecia Paine · 532 views · 1 year ago

30:32

Still Jealous in Polyamory? It’s Not What You Think

Ellecia Paine · 6K views · 11 months ago

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