Before you give up watch this | FT. Vijay Varadharaj | Buildup Podcast
342K views · Aug 15, 2026 · People & Blogs
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@gouseboss3553 · 1 month ago
Bro thank you for inviting himmm, nee oru nalla vishiyam pannirukaaa...🫂
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@TheComebackGang · 1 month ago (edited)
Summary : <br> " Nee Humble ah ila naa , life unna Humble aakirum "<br> "Be in the present - "Future and Past "laam namma control la ila "<br> "Do What makes you happy - Follow your passion , Money is just byproduct "<br> " Consistency Beats Tallents "<br> " Happiness ah unakulla thedu - spending money layo , Traveling layoo , show off layoo yethulayum unmaiyana happiness irukathu"<br> " just read books , Watch movies "<br> " Time Heals Everything "<br> " yelarayum orey equal ah treat pananum "<br> " Kooda irukaravangalukaga Risk edukanum "<br> " kooda irukavangalooda story therunju vechurukanum , suma pechuku friend ah iruka koodathu "<br> " Dont judge your friends ,just flow - thappu panuna , thappu nu solanum"<br> "Be Kind , Be Humble "<br> "Be Aware , Stand For Yourself , Be Happy "<br><br>Conclusion : Be in the present , Do What makes you Happy , Do Good Things .Try to be happy, You have the ability to change your life !
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@Heisenricher · 1 month ago
[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w">00:00</a>] – Highlights & Episode Preview<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=96">01:36</a>] – Introduction & Welcome<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=134">02:14</a>] – Who is Vijay Varadharaj?<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=173">02:53</a>] – Darkest Phase of Life: COVID-19 & Father's Demise<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=372">06:12</a>] – Coping with Loss, Grief, and Emotional Guilt<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=513">08:33</a>] – Loss of a Friend to Suicide & Why Vijay Started Podcasting<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=638">10:38</a>] – Handling Loneliness, Emotional Pain, and the "Time Heals" Mindset<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=818">13:38</a>] – Attachment, Heartbreak, and Letting Go<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=857">14:17</a>] – The Healing Power of Art and Vincent van Gogh’s Life<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=984">16:24</a>] – Building Your Own Safe Space and Relying on Family Support<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1038">17:18</a>] – Finding Strength in Literature: Dostoevsky & Franz Kafka<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1223">20:23</a>] – Being an Introvert vs. Public Persona & Coping Mechanisms<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1334">22:14</a>] – Life-Changing Books & The Influence of Osho<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1462">24:22</a>] – Favorite Authors: Alan Moore, H.P. Lovecraft & Mahmoud Darwish<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1555">25:55</a>] – Understanding Failure, Success, and Living for the Process<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1820">30:20</a>] – Finding Your Calling, Experimentation, and Overcoming Stuttering<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=1991">33:11</a>] – Multi-Passionate People (Polymaths) & Navigating ADHD<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=2198">36:38</a>] – Managing Multiple Careers and Family Expectations<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=2302">38:22</a>] – Dealing with Comparison, Jealousy, and Achieving Self-Clarity<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=2526">42:06</a>] – The Art of Waiting: 15 Years of Consistency and Awards<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=2806">46:46</a>] – Philosophy on Money, Work Satisfaction, and Wealth<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=3107">51:47</a>] – Reality Check on "Simple Living", Social Privilege, and Economics<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=3420">57:00</a>] – Men’s Mental Health, Guilt, and Vulnerability<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=3663">01:01:03</a>] – The Critical Role of Family and Women in a Man’s Life<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=3801">01:03:21</a>] – Marriage, Fatherhood, and Personal Transformation<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=3953">01:05:53</a>] – Societal Expectations on Men & Choosing Unconventional Paths<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4133">01:08:53</a>] – What True Friendship Means (Reflections on Shareef & Sha Ra)<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4511">01:15:11</a>] – Coping Mechanisms During Low Phases: Daughter, Anime (Naruto), Ilaiyaraaja & Meditation<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4594">01:16:34</a>] – God vs. Godliness & Experiencing Consciousness<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4724">01:18:44</a>] – Three Key Lessons Learned from Osho<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4781">01:19:41</a>] – Life Philosophy: Moment-to-Moment Awareness<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4862">01:21:02</a>] – Why Impermanence and Mortality Make Life Beautiful<br>[<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEEP20TG43w&t=4913">01:21:53</a>] – Message for Anyone Facing Their Darkest Phase & Conclusion
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@kamalesh3521 · 1 month ago
Tamil society will soon identify and use this genius <br>En anan vijay vardharaj 🖤
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@DilushaJeganathan · 3 weeks ago
If this algorithm is real, thank you for sending this to the right person 🙃🍃
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@varunraj7383 · 1 month ago
Not just a podcast. It's life lessons 🖤
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@xash-z · 1 month ago
Vijay anna and mysskin should make a podcast
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@OUTOFHOME11 · 1 month ago
Hope = nambikai ellatha word. Wow his words 😮
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@harivignesh1904 · 1 month ago
In this world. Everyone is trying to be someone else. But some people are gifted in their life to live in their own life and accepting themselves. That’s Vijay varadharaj. ❤
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@helloguberan · 1 month ago
24 December 2024, something worst happened to me. That time i was clueless, dont know where to cry, suddenly i remembered vocal oli podcast. I rant everything to him, within minutes he replied, he spoke to me like his own brother. He said the same thing to me "time heals".. Love you vijay na
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@asifffffffffffff · 1 month ago
The OG of YouTube 😭😭
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@MrVeTTi · 10 days ago
Therinju sonninngalo, theriyama sonningalo.<br><br>But the algorithm worked as you said, "One of the lowest point, la dha irukken, video came to my feed, penetrating my political ecochamber homepage."
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