An "UGLY" girl's harsh reality, even though you keep invalidating her.

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  @Linahdia · 11 months ago · pinned

  These women are not ugly tbh😢

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  @sincerelyuselessyetfree · 3 months ago (edited)

  ppl who are still saying "you're not ugly" in this comment section, are you hearing what the creator said? Did you have a problem with ugliness? Why you keep invalidating their experiences of feeling ugly or are you wanting to be a liar?? You are the reason why they're still feeling that way

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  @Steph6.0 · 11 months ago

  Environments matter. I've lived in various countries throughout my life and I can honestly say, my level of "attractiveness" was dependent on my surroundings & the cultural norms of each particular location. However, how I felt about myself or how I perceived my attractiveness never changed no matter what because I have a strong self-identity. These women have been told they are "unattractive" for so long that they actually believe it, feel it, embrace it, and repeat it. That's next level mental and emotional warfare.

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  @reallyreal7630 · 11 months ago

  Exactly.. am not attractive but that doesn&apos;t mean I shouldn&apos;t enjoy my life. I will eat my meal with joy, wear the dress I want, go shopping if I have the money, read my books, answer questions if someone asks me, ask questions if I need to, go ahead and achieve as much &nbsp;as I can afford..<br>Yeah, am unattractive but I WILL enjoy my life.

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  @XtraxtraLovely · 11 months ago

  We all aren’t attracted to the same things at the end of the day

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  @curlyq690 · 3 months ago

  Ex-pretty person here. Pretty only last for so long. Then you are older and if you have never cultivated friendships, loves and other aspects of life and just concentrated on being “pretty,” then you will be lost later in life. Love a person for THEM, their character, and how decent of a person they are and how they treat/love you! Confidence is King! Again, pretty fades. I found that out at my class reunions! 😂If that’s ALL you concentrate on and judge people by in life, let me tell you, you will miss out and pass on some fabulous people/mates. Trust me on this! Pretty is overrated IMO. &nbsp;Don’t fall for the trap. Love someone for THEM and HOW they love YOU! Trust this Auntie. I would not lie to you. ❤

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  @TheQuietTrait · 10 months ago

  I understand how they feel....i grew up being bullied for my physical appearance. Whenever i would be rightfully upset about how mean-spirited people were towards me, I&apos;d be hit with, &quot;No one has to be nice to you.&quot; Or &quot;maybe it&apos;s something you&apos;re doing&quot; even though i was quiet &amp; respectful to everyone else. All that bullying is why i have severe social anxiety now...like i just want to be treated like a human being that&apos;s it. <br><br>But lately I&apos;ve been learning to just ignore &amp; try to love myself despite what i continue to deal with in daily life.

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  @CheekyLoves · 10 months ago

  I know that telling them &quot;but you&apos;re not ugly&quot; invalidates their very real, lived experiences but none of those women are what I would call ugly. Average? Yes. But not ugly. People can just be so cruel. I lost 77 pounds and the way I was treated was like night and day. Like, I&apos;m literally the same person I just calorie count now 😐.

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  @kochfeemiri663 · 11 months ago

  So sad. They aren‘t ugly, Social Media is 😢

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  @XtraxtraLovely · 11 months ago

  Don’t try to learn through a man learn yourself within yourself

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  @junohawthorne7658 · 2 months ago (edited)

  If you can attract 1 person, you are attractive. I might be the least attractive person i’ve ever seen because ive never attracted A SINGLE ONE. Literally undesirable, because i’ve NEVER BEEN DESIRED. Im fking SICK of people saying they’re ugly because they keep going on first dates. LIKE WHAAAT YOU CAN GET A DATE??? YOURE NOT UGLY

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  @lovely1080 · 2 weeks ago

  Sometimes I feel ugly and sometimes I feel pretty

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