The Prodigal Shame Cycle

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• B4

  @b4thevows · 3 months ago · pinned

  What part of this teaching spoke to you the most? &nbsp;<br>Understanding the shame cycle can change the way you see your prodigal spouse — their distance, their silence, their mixed signals, and even their running.<br>If you feel comfortable, share below:<br>* Which stage of the shame cycle you’ve seen<br>* What God is revealing to you<br>* How you’re praying for your spouse today<br>I read every comment, and I’m praying for you as you stand, believe, and trust God’s timing.<br>You are not alone.

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• MR

  @mrsykingofficial · 3 months ago

  I don’t think you both realise how much your videos are impacting my stand. Sometimes it can feel lonely, not because I don’t have people close to me that are believing God with me, but because there aren’t any people around me that I know that have been through it and seen restoration take place. But what you are speaking is so true. What stood out to me the most from this video was when you talked about the stand not needing to look perfect. I was talking to my mum about the same thing today saying that I am doing my best but I know it’s not perfect. We went out for fathers day and he is opening up little by little. We have been hugging and he is saying that we are just one step away. He finds out about his job tomorrow as there has been a delay. I haven’t emailed in a few weeks, I have alot to update you on. Will be on the live tomorrow and I will try to send an update email this weekend 😅<br><br>Thank you both so much for your obedience in this ❤️

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• CA

  @caydenandvictoria8646 · 2 months ago (edited)

  You guys have to KEEP making your videos. I know at times your lives may get busy. But please be intentional in carving time to be obedient to the specific topic the Lord leads you to share on. You are impacting people’s marriages. I am from london Uk. You probably don’t think that you are exposing the devil’s schemes but you are. The enemy hates hope in broken marriages. The Lord has been doing a lot in my husband and mine’s life and marriage. Your message is so on time. We praise the Lord Jesus. The Lord’s arm is not too short to save nor His ears too dull to hear. May the Lord bless you and your family 🕊️

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• WI

  @WillEvansLive · 3 months ago (edited)

  You guys’ content is helping save my marriage. I know you both struggled to get here but I Thank God for your struggle because I did not understand my wife (the prodigal) before watching this. I’m the stander for sure. These videos have opened my mind and heart so much. When I was fully ready to divorce.

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• AL

  @Alexus_AboutHerFathersBusiness · 3 months ago

  If your reading this, god IS going to restore your marriage. Your marriage will come into agreement with the will of heaven. You WILL have full and total restoration to your marriage, and it WILL come to pass in the name of Jesus. No matter what it looks like on the outside, the spirit realm is moving on all of our behalf’s. Just keep giving it to god, keep Jesus in control and allow the holy spirit to keep leading you and guide you NOT your emotions. Be blessed 🥹 I love you Robert and Monica sooooo much! And thank you guys!❤️❤️❤️❤️

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• MR

  @mrsleisabenston · 3 months ago

  That was so good, so, so good. &nbsp;It was just so rich in wisdom. &nbsp;Also though, helped me confirm and clarify, i just need to get out of the way, and let God take my husband on his own journey and keep praying for God to intervene in his life.

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• AI

  @aimeemorrison9604 · 3 months ago

  Thank you Robert and Monica. My prodigal is returning home next week and I needed to hear all this. It is so helpful to know these important facts about shame and what may happen in his return❤

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• DE

  @deanocasso590 · 3 months ago

  Brothers and sisters. &nbsp;God is healing my marriage im seeing real breakthroughs as we speak. And im telling you keep standing and keep trusting God because im telling you my marriage was dead and Jesus is breathing life into it.

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• PA

  @PatriceLaShaeAnthony · 3 months ago

  Wow, this helps a lot and help me understand what is going on with My Husband right now and throughout our relationship our marriage they don’t even know about, but I can see the fruit of it. Wow thank you so much.

• AF

  @aFreddylynn · 3 months ago

  If you really knew me , you wouldn’t stay ! Oh boy story of my life , I thought my husband was the one who did stay , until he didn’t m unsurprisingly it has totally unraveled me , but God is putting me back together . Thanking God Daily for you wonderful people ❤️🙏🏻

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• SH

  @shannonelisebeauty · 2 months ago

  This has been so helpful! Thank you for being so open and sharing

• CA

  @carlaford7764 · 3 months ago (edited)

  My husband told me he wasn’t sure if he loved me, he said he used to. He said he doesn’t need me, he doesn’t need me to do anything for him. He was yelling at me and I told him I didn’t deserve to be yelled at, he said I know. We have spoken since. We live in the same house, like roommates married for 34 years. I’m the stander.

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