Men Don't Fall in Love First… They Crave Something Else
125K views · Apr 21, 2026 · Education
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@SaveTheMessenger · 5 months ago (edited) · pinned
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@MentalFramesYT · 5 months ago
Men don’t fall in love first… they get attached to how a woman makes them feel. The love comes later. Once you understand that shift, everything about relationships starts to make sense.
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@oh-orthur · 3 months ago (edited)
Looking back, I think he was attracted to my financial stability and the house I inherited. There was a lot of focus on income, inheritance, and money in general. We took turns paying for meals, but he always seemed to make sure he got the better deal by picking cheaper restaurants. He never tipped, either. I'll never date a man who works in finance again.
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@AIliving2026 · 5 months ago
I am not with generalisation. People marry fir different reasons.
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@OctopusPrincess69 · 4 months ago
As a neurodivergent woman (but extreeeeeemely straight), I find myself relating to men's thought processes often. This shared experience of driving around, exploring.. or just going for a hike nowhere in psrticular - I'd have given both right arms to do those things with my crush. Just do stuff with him, no matter how boring it might seem. I'm tortured by how differently my instincts to act are, though, from what men want. It terrifies me. I can't fathom how I'll ever be able to relate to a man withough f*cking it up. In my head, I want to express affection and love exactly how I keep reading that men want, but when it comes to actually interacting with one I care for, something flips and I do EVERY GD THING WRONG. I feel cursed. The love is trapped inside me.
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@MeowTube-Adventures · 5 months ago
Celibacy is the best thing these days.
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@BelaKD · 2 months ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsFCmyPdocY&t=331">5:31</a>: "What exists between you and this man that he can't get anywhere else" - I like this question.
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@wayoshi497 · 3 months ago
I literally confessed to a boy even after feeling how I feel he just wants and crave my friendship how to pull back my energy and maybe how make him fall
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@mariak5096 · 5 months ago
As an introverted woman I hate hate hate the constant talking and questions and certainly wish there were more "activity" dates to be done. Problem is that these are often not the first dates you're going to go on, especially since a lot of dating now starts off online/on the phone where the only thing you can do is talk and ask questions. And a lot of guys get bored and bail very quickly before you can ever do anything else.
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@MeisnerFero · 4 months ago
The overall experience feels very natural and enjoyable.
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@JJ-ml7wo · 5 months ago
I’m a woman and prefer what you say. Words only go so far. Yes!! This is gold.
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@Creating2413 · 4 months ago
What happens when things seem to go well and you seem to have shared experiences but after 6 months everything changed? He doesn't end the relationship but he isn't sharing the experiences the same way. He isn't participating.
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