Why Women Prefer Mysterious Men Over Clingy Relationship Oriented Nice Guys

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• ST

  @StonedMemento · 3 years ago

  When you’re desperate for a relationship, it shows you lack satisfaction and love with yourself.

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• JA

  @jacobstheory · 3 years ago

  Something that I always did when I was single was to chill, don&apos;t have expectations and always assume she is going out with someone else as well. That was the easiest way not to get attached and vet her properly to make sure she is a decent person to date.<br><br>Your actions today, always predict your future.

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• JO

  @johngalt6838 · 3 years ago

  Guess what?.....That mysterious guy always becomes familiar over time.

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• DI

  @diatonicjon · 3 years ago (edited)

  &quot;...Skeptical, taking his time...&quot; You don&apos;t learn this until you learn the game. I didn&apos;t learn the game until i got burned multiple times. Just being honest.

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• CH

  @chriscarr7397 · 3 years ago (edited)

  To the emailer who wrote this. You need to stop obsessing over wanting to get a girlfriend. Don&apos;t focus on a woman! Don&apos;t make a woman the center of your universe. Because, if you do, she&apos;s going to lose respect for you. Don&apos;t put a woman first. You need to put yourself first.

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• ZA

  @zacharymcgee5552 · 2 years ago

  A lot of these emails that Corey reads remind me of the movie 500 days of summer. Its about a clingy guy that falls for a girl and his over pursuit pushes her away.

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• CH

  @ChrisBarnette-zk8iy · 3 years ago (edited)

  I&apos;d say most of them just wanted to smash that night and dude missed out. <br>But he may not be like that and thats ok.

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• RA

  @rand0m742 · 3 years ago

  From what I&apos;ve seen, women are more ATTRACTED to the mysterious guy in a sexual sense, but they are typically much more likely to MARRY the clingy relationship dude lol. He tends to be a far safer bet for long-term partnership since women see him as more predictable and consistent. If a man masters balancing the mysterious appeal with the safe/reliable appeal, then he&apos;s hit the jackpot. But most men will realistically only fall into one camp or the other.

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  @1988Allnatural · 3 years ago

  This is pretty common today that women will ghost or just not be interested in a 2nd date. Women have so many options that they will always try to find something better. A perceived better option is just a swipe away now! Reciprocate the energy she is putting into the communication and don&apos;t try and chase or get answers as to why she ghosted you (needy/desperate behavior). Move on! Keep improving as a man until you meet someone that has desire for you as well. <br><br>I can say this as my last five or so &quot;good&quot; dates have ended with a kiss and then ghosted. Just roll with the punches. She is either not that interested, seeing someone else, or just not emotionally available. Be thankful she didn&apos;t waste any more of your time or money.

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• JA

  @Jakobslander · 3 years ago (edited)

  Yes, they love &quot;mysterious&quot; until they discover what comes with the &quot;mysteriousness&quot; and begin trying to manipulate the f-ckboy (which is what they truly are, let&apos;s be honest.) I love it when I see a train wreck in motion... it&apos;s funny and sad at the same time. And these women hopelessly sit there waiting for SuperMysterious to mutate into the husband of their dreams while he just wants to hit it and run. Then she&apos;s left without a relationship, with kids and looking for a willing beta male to inherit the &quot;situationship&quot; in exchange for sporadic sex. <br><br>I&apos;ve seen this happen so many times it used to make me cringe and left with a feeling of sadness for her... Now I look at it and laugh.

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• AN

  @andrew6297 · 3 years ago

  I’ve known as a lot of women just wanna hook up and don’t see you as long-term material just like a guy would want to hook up with a woman yet don’t see her as long-term

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• PS

  @psychosylocibin · 3 years ago (edited)

  I agree with Corey Wayne&apos;s Stance on not being too eager and not prioritizing a women whom you are not truly excited by / not giving you the same energy. HOWEVER, something has drastically shifted in the dating market since covid ended - especially with online dating. the amount of fading/ghosting and outright spastic/confusing behavior from women has increased dramatically. I&apos;ve found in the past you could generally act interested, play the numbers game, and once you found a women where there was mutual interest, she would stick around. nowadays, it seems as though you can have an amazing connection on both ends, that is sustained over a few dates, and she will just ghost or fade or &quot;Suddenly feel&quot; differently. I think most women that have remained single and used apps are honestly mentally wracked and its starting to show - no matter how good the date(S), there is a good chance she will leave. &nbsp;I&apos;ve noticed this as well as many of my friends. Something has definetely changed.

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