18 Years of Marriage Ended | Here's What I Learned

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  @MyeshaChaney · 3 years ago (edited) · pinned

  I wrote a book about everything I couldn’t share in this video. I was finally Honest. Thank you for supporting. <a href="https://stan.store/myeshachaney/p/honest-preorder-">https://stan.store/myeshachaney/p/honest-preorder-</a>

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  @gayladkelly8507 · 3 years ago (edited)

  I can definitely relate to this story! I was also a Pastor&apos;s wife, married for 19 years with 2 teenage daughters and received an announcement from him that he wanted a divorce! After accepting the finality of the divorce because he immediately married someone else, I am much better for it! Very happy and retired now! This happened 25 years ago! I married again to a wonderful man but after 6 years, he died in 2010 and I am happily still single today and loving all 7 of my grandchildren!!!

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  @rhythmoflove2 · 3 years ago

  Finally after 5 years, I know without a doubt I made the right decision to divorce him. I am free, whole and healed!

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  @raquelevans5973 · 3 years ago

  Divorce is hard but staying in a unhappy marriage is a slow Death. &nbsp;There is light at the end of the tunnel. Happy you made it through

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  @lavonnickens2883 · 3 years ago

  When I got divorced, it felt like a death. &nbsp;God saw me through it all.

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  @kennethwilliams7697 · 3 years ago

  Been married for 43 years, married at age 18 me, and 19 my wife. Almost got divorced in the early years but a marriage encounter weekend was the catalyst for change, and we have grown older together and doing ministry together for almost 40 years. I know several pastors who have divorced their wives, it’s very sad because divorce breaks up families and breaks up spiritual families too. I pray for all of you that have gone through or you’re going through it right now, there is life beyond divorce, God bless you all.

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  @millennialmommoneymagnet3340 · 3 years ago

  @MyeshaChaney thank you for your transparency. I felt your story to my core because I recently went through a &quot;d&quot; at the end of the pandemic. It was so painful because we have 2 small daughters under 6 yrs old. We we&apos;re together for 15 years and married for 9 years. The day we left the courthouse, he called me and left a 4 min voice note saying I can&apos;t believe we&apos;re really divorce. I cried my eyes out while grabbing our wedding album, turning every page and crying harder and harder until my eyes were puffy. After about 18 months post &quot;d&quot;, he realized how miserable he was without me, and wanted to fight to gain me back. (This is after I said NEVER again in this lifetime would I ever get back with this man, God laughed at us). Now after 8 months of therapy, and spiritual counseling he&apos;s fully moved back in to raise our children together. We re-dedicated ourselves and will have our 10th wedding Anniversary. We still love each other, and spend more time together on dates, and family outing. &nbsp;God is faithful.

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  @kweinaqila · 3 years ago

  Divorced after 27 years. When we got married, I swore divorce was not an option. He wanted out but didn&apos;t know how to say it, worrying about what people would think. I loved him enough to let him go. Being married made me important. &nbsp;Being divorced made me free!!!! Thank you for sharing. It feels good to know that I am n ot alone. Joy loves company!

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  @greaterishe7197 · 3 years ago (edited)

  I&apos;ve been transitioning towards divorce for 3 years. At one point, I was stuck on the time invested. &nbsp;Something my former pastor told me was ,&quot;Quantity doesnt mean quality.&quot; People assume because you stay things are well.

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  @Monieeetreeess · 3 years ago (edited)

  My grand mom used to say that every young person should live alone for at least 2 years before getting into a relationship or marriage. She stated it would allow you to get to know yourself first..

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  @karenplater6350 · 3 years ago

  I have been through divorce, and it was very painful. With the help of the Lord, I got through it and have remarried for 25 years.

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  @rickeymedley7248 · 3 years ago

  I listened to this testimony as a good Man. I recently discovered a secret relationship in my 20 year marriage. Admittedly i have not been a saint. I also created the &quot;be perfect&quot; image. All house have windows. I pleased everyone. At 60 i felt so empty. I felt depressed most of the time. My excuse for staying was always my kids. They are older now. I understand how you got in your position. &nbsp;Your battery died. Pleasing everyone was the real problem. I am glad you transformed your life. This situation is not about gender. Nobody can die for you....proud of you young lady..i reinvented my purpose at 64. I feel free.

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