CHOSEN, but FROZEN: Why He Hesitates in Taking the Next Step
31K views · Jun 9, 2026 · Education
Comments · 102
@yourfavegirlría · 3 months ago
The only thing to turn to is God because He is not the author of confusion. I need clarity, and peace.
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@blackmessiahtv · 3 months ago
This is what I'm currently experiencing. As a woman I want the man to know how to take the lead without being controlling. So I create space for him to move towards me and trust in God's timing
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@TEEBAY1 · 3 months ago (edited)
It's crazy how a lot of us women in these comments are currently going through this same exact phase. Trust in God's timing ladies and everything will all work itself out but also have that conversation. I did... It took a few clarity conversations but we're on the same page now so trust the process...have faith and stay positive. Be blessed 🙏🏽💓
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@jasmina5566 · 3 months ago
Love the title “chosen but frozen”
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@BineBean89 · 3 months ago
Dear Sealz,<br>This content ist so precious. It's so good to hear those internal thoughts of a genuine decent, loving and healthy man. It shows that he truly cares a lot about getting himself better and about the woman and also protects her and the relationship from his issues until he got himself ready.
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@michellehinds4073 · 3 months ago
His points are so clear. It's so informative
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@HeyokahSacredClown7777-d9h · 3 months ago
Watching you has helped me stay grounded and the man for me came back in my life ! we were platonic first and our mothers are God fearing. Equally yolked and mutually intentional 😊😊😊❤❤
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@audrycamille5286 · 3 months ago (edited)
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF0kpgd24nc&t=86">1:26</a> wants a guaranteed yes before asking out<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF0kpgd24nc&t=153">2:33</a> he doesn't feel financially or logistically ready<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF0kpgd24nc&t=245">4:05</a> he's afraid the label will change the peace<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF0kpgd24nc&t=326">5:26</a> he's waiting for emotional proof, not more chemistry <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF0kpgd24nc&t=402">6:42</a> he's internally chosen you, but hasn't emotionally crossed the bridge into action<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oF0kpgd24nc&t=519">8:39</a> give a soft nudge (a safety net)
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@ItsAuntieKaren · 1 month ago
You are so insightful.
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@DancingAndPraze · 2 weeks ago
"Behaviorally Delayed" 😮❤
@elbradavid533 · 3 months ago
Female here, I'm afraid of exactly the same things
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@marinacases · 3 months ago (edited)
well, if he does not feel ready in some aspect, why isn't he dealing with this instead of going after a relationship?<br>we women be out there doing our homework, so why do we have to wait for them to fix whatever it is? I don't understand that.
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