The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go | Jill Sherer Murray | TEDxWilmingtonWomen
6.4M views · Dec 21, 2016 · Nonprofits & Activism
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@benjiarehart2878 · 4 years ago (edited)
If you dont lose the person that is wrong for you. You will never find the one that's right for you. At 32 yrs old, I was hurting so bad after a relationship had failed. I thought it was the end of the world. 3 years later I married my wife. She is a trustworthy and great woman. Perfect for me. She loves me like I've always wanted to be, and I love her even more.. Married for 26 years now. So glad that the last relationship ended. Because I would have never found my soul mate. Move on. There is someone that was born for you. I promise.
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@curiouscarpenter3152 · 7 years ago
"In the end only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you"<br>Buddha
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@staccato04 · 6 years ago
I pray that those who were disrespected, insulted and compared by their partners to their friends and ex's will have a happy ending in their life. Everyone deserves to be happy.
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@adilahaz · 4 years ago
Really powerful talk. My method<br>1. Detach<br>2. Distance<br>3. Don't go back EVER
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@fxseh6874 · 7 years ago (edited)
This talk helped me let go of my ex. I believe that everything that is happening right now is the right thing even if you still can't see it. We should just accept it and believe in the power of the universe because the path that is drawn to us is the right one. You who is heartbroken and reading this comment, have faith, be strong and know that what is for you will come back even if it means crossing mountains. For the mean time, enjoy life, don't take your time for granted and gain experience for the future. You can do this. X.<br><br>update : 2 years later, that same ex came back begging me to take him back, he's trying to include me back, as much as he can, to his life. but guess what? the universe is indeed a powerful machinery that repels exes, friends, family etc. not meant for you, faraway from you. And right now I can clearly see why. I met my soulmate and I am ecstatic. Couldn't be more relieved to know that everything truly happens for a reason. <br>Please stay strong, you're gonna be surprised by what life has to offer you. Trust the process, you are in the right path!
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@ItisMoody · 6 years ago
If anyone doesn't appreciate you and make you feel irreplaceable in their life, or doesn't show you how valuable you are all the time: LEAVE. Be it a partner, a job, a friend, or sometimes your own family. Just leave, your life will instantly get better.
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@tishabhayana7635 · 3 years ago
Let go of taking things personally<br>Let go of what others think of you<br>Let go of trying to be something you're not <br>Let go of the need to be perfect<br>Let go of not yet
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@samanthac4164 · 4 years ago
Watching this after a breakup is so powerful, especially when you know that you're letting go of a relationship that's hurting you and taking your love for granted
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@of-storm-and-stone · 8 years ago
I love the old man in the front taking copious notes. Makes me remember it’s never too late to learn!
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@Nenaaap · 8 years ago
1 - Let go of taking things personally.<br>2 - Let go of what other people think.<br>3 - Let go of trying to be something you are not.<br>4 - Let go of the need to be perfect.<br>5 - Let go of not yet.
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@Gayleg · 7 years ago
letting go will hurt once but staying in the relationship for long will hurt every moment. thus, it is better to let go.
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@ZurilasZone · 5 years ago
The power of actually saying "no" when hector said "lets get married" is huge...
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