Seksuolog o tym, czym nieświadomie odtrącasz swojego mężczyznę

Andrzej Gryżewski. Psychologist, sexologist, cognitive-behavioral psychotherapist, and schema therapist, author of an extensive compendium on men. He has been seeing patients in his office for twenty years, and his institute has seen approximately nine thousand patients, half women and half men. It was supposed to be very serious, because the topic is serious, but it turned out to be equal parts seriousness and laughter—and I think we both would have gotten a note in the diary. This is a conversation about what happens in a man's head when he stops being perceived as a human being and begins to function like a "package locker": pick up, fulfill, feel nothing. It's about how if a child is taught from an early age not to feel fear, sadness, and anger, then he won't feel arousal, desire, or excitement either. We discuss how being raised by women, the lack of male role models, and the mother's voice influence a son's adult sexuality. About the syndromes that ruin intimacy – the Madonna and the Whore, the Queen Bee, the Doberman, and Pygmalion. About why the brain is the largest sexual organ and why "make-up" sex after an argument usually doesn't help. And also, honestly and with humor, about the myths that pornography has implanted in men. In this episode, you'll hear, among other things: Why many men feel like "package commodities" and what this does to their emotional and sexual lives. How the lack of male role models and the negative image of a father created by a mother affect a son's adult relationships. The Madonna and the Whore Syndrome and the Doberman Syndrome – "he won't touch his own, and he won't let go of another" – or where the avoidance of sex with one's own partner comes from. The Queen Bee Syndrome: when a man is reduced to the role of a drone and removed after the birth of a child. Why the brain is the largest sexual organ, and why "make-up" sex, supposedly used to defuse an argument, most often doesn't work. Where does the "carpenter era" and other patterns implanted in pornography come from? And why the truth about the male body looks completely different. The small penis complex, the myth of a large ejaculation, and what women really don't know about men in bed. A very honest conversation about mothers, boundaries, and why a son is more easily "castrated" by words than by setting boundaries. Alimony, which isn't a gift, and "a man who's been screwed up"—a phrase parents should never say to a child. And a very important point about male sexuality not being in crisis, but in transition. Do you also sometimes feel that we only formulate expectations for men—partners, sons, fathers—and increasingly rarely ask how they actually feel? This conversation isn't an instruction manual. It's an invitation to look inside this "microcosm called a man"—and emerge with greater understanding, on both sides. Subscribe to the Gosia Ohme Podcast channel and send this episode to someone you finally want to talk to about intimacy without shame. Chapters: 0:00 In this episode 1:28 Start of the conversation 2:55 Erections disconnected from emotions and the harassment of men 11:50 Podcast partners 16:27 From the crisis of masculinity to reconstruction 20:37 A woman will raise her son to be a human being, not a man 22:34 Men's circles and the Conscious Men festival 28:08 Podcast partners 28:59 The Madonna and the Whore Syndrome 30:38 The Queen Bee Syndrome 34:53 The Doberman Syndrome 36:05 The Pygmalion Syndrome 42:52 Are Polish men demanding about their appearance? 45:49 A podcast instead of porn and the era of carpenters 52:45 The myth of the large penis and male insecurities 56:30 The largest sexual organ is the brain 1:00:22 Podcast partners 1:03:52 Alimony is not Gifts 1:05:53 A Man with a Blunder 1:08:00 Women Castrate - About Communication _____ KODANO Optician - Polish optical salons where you can get your eyesight checked and choose frames that suit your style. Current promotions at https://kodano.pl/ _____ Take care of your finances with the XTB investment app: https://link-pso.xtb.com/pso/OevgA Do you think you lack the necessary knowledge? Now, by registering with XTB with the code "OHME," you will receive a free educational course that will introduce you step by step to the world of investing and finance. Investing is risky. Invest responsibly. _____ Order the Nice To Fit You diet for 20% off with the code GOSIAOHME - https://shorturl.at/zLiHU _____ For listeners of this episode, we have a discount code for BIOWEN products - code OHME20 - https://tiny.pl/57s3x92wq _____ Try NUMA high-polyphenol olive oil - https://numa.bio/ohme CODE: OHME - 20 PLN off every bottle purchased and free shipping. ____________________ @GosiaOhme 🔔 Subscribe: @gosiaohme 🌐 Website: https://ohme.pl 👍 Facebook: Facebook: gosiaohme 📷 Instagram: Instagram: gosiaohme 🎵 TikTok: TikTok: gosiaohme 🎧 Listen on streaming: https://ffm.bio/lajfnolmakeup Spotify ► https:...