[FULL STORY] What incident made you lose feelings for the person you thought you would marry?

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• MI

  @MissyChrissy05 · 1 year ago

  I feel like they both need therapy, especially before any of them attempt another relationship

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• LI

  @littlelunastra878 · 1 year ago

  Neither party here is in the right, both of these people need some therapy.

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• OS

  @oscaristhecoolest28 · 1 year ago

  As bad as she is, OP is just leading her on the whole time. Both need help

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• TS

  @tse7677 · 1 year ago (edited)

  This story is not the real Reddit story.  The original story the girl was not violent, she did not threaten to off herself.  He mentioned she’s very sweet but her lack of ambition is what has made him no longer like her.  She has no hobbies, doesn’t even cook.  She does nothing but sex and conversation.  He has tried to motivate her to get a hobby or work and she says no.  He gets tired after working long shifts and then having to come home and cook. She grew up poor with her mom not working and her dad working and in order to stay living at home she had to go to school.  She dropped out and got kicked out and OP let her move in.  She had no ambition and OP was a nurse.  The lease end date was not until end of October so there has been no updates.

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• KA

  @kanteannightmare · 1 year ago

  Said it was a "deadline". To him it was, he was just leading her on that point. It can only get worse if you give someone false hope.

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• TH

  @thelittlelady1679 · 1 year ago

  If you ever have a relationship where the person says stay with me or I’ll off myself then you need to get out. Immediately. They need help.

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• PA

  @Pain1srealls · 1 year ago

  I feel like she had BPD (borderline personality disorder) she had a lot of trouble regulating her emotions, and when she needs constant reassurance and trying to do anything to please the one she loves or thinks she loves,  even if she’s hurt or has horrible mental health

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• TR

  @trythisbr8268 · 1 year ago

  Literally my last relationship

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• YU

  @yuvvrajkperson · 1 year ago

  It took months for his feelings to disappear. How is she expecting his feelings to be back on in literally two weeks. It takes time and effort for results and two weeks is far too less for this

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• PR

  @pr.b4bly_luckyyy · 1 year ago

  My ex was the same, He is only 16 and already believes that he can&apos;t do work because his hands are too shakey. He failed to register for disability, He has no actual disadvantages in life, The doctors told him his hands are normal. He is a drop out, He sits inside all day playing video games. the whole 4 months we were talking, I think i only witnessed him shower 10 times. He was also extremely sexual and always tried to make moves that would be either rejected or I&apos;d feel bad and feel pressured. I&apos;m so glad I broke up with him.<br><br>(Before anyone says, &quot;Why didn&apos;t you just help him get a hobby or talk it out?&quot; I tried. I told him a lot of times to get out of the house or just to go on a walk he always said,&apos;No, that&apos;s too awkward because I have no friends.&apos;)

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• SI

  @SillyBilly334 · 1 year ago

  Did people genuinely forget the part of her manipulating him with suicide ? Idc what problem you have, you got no excuses to do this bs.

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• HU

  @hunterblane610 · 1 year ago

  This is sad. He tried ro be supportive of her, but ended up just enabling her. By the time he figured out the best approach to take, he had already lost his feelings for her.

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