Sibling Estrangement and Family Scapegoat Abuse (FSA): A Closer Look #scapegoat #familyestrangement

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  @beyondfamilyscapegoatingabuse · 2 years ago (edited) · pinned

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  @grecco888 · 1 year ago

  You are only free when you admit that you never really had a family

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  @jm5ug · 2 years ago

  Hey scapegoat here! <br> Best thing i did was say goodbye to the toxic family 10 years ago. <br> They&apos;re all living happily in the massive lie they tell themselves. It&apos;s fascinating more than anything. I&apos;ve been through the grief and pain and wonder &nbsp;<br>I focus on myself and the beautiful people that love and support me. They&apos;ve helped me learn to love myself and that in turn has shown me how to love ♥ &nbsp;same with work and friendships. Say no to toxic people and walk away. We got this :)

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  @puzzling7785 · 11 months ago

  When a person goes &quot;No Contact&quot; with their sibling... Let me just say that the art of not giving a f*ck is soooo refreshing.

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  @TWILLIE639 · 2 years ago (edited)

  If one tells you they don’t want to “take sides” it means they’ve already taken a side and it’s not yours.

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  @Rosakru · 2 years ago (edited)

  My experience has demonstrated that even going no contact with siblings and a narcissistic mother, and living in a foreign country far from my original home, still has not &nbsp;diminished the abusive nature of the dysfunction family. At 56 years old and 25 years out of my family system, I still hear of my scapegoat position through extended family and &nbsp;of common friends. It&apos;s quite amazing actually.

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  @susansmithey5317 · 2 years ago

  I’m 69 years old and am the family scapegoat. I’m #2 of four children. All shame and hate was placed upon me. Mom was the &nbsp;perpetrator. Dad tried to be my defender. He died in 1981. 11 or 12 years ago, after an egregious betrayal by my Mom I finally walked away and went no contact. &nbsp;Best thing I ever did. Then 8years and 8 months ago I further “insulted “ the family dynamic and system by getting sober and staying sober. So much more I’d like to say! I’m glad I got out.

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  @sunnyt9630 · 2 years ago

  I was my family scapegoat, and was brutally physically abused by my mother. I became a people pleaser, and tried to “buy” my sibling’s affection by giving them money for more than twenty years. They were bottomless pits, asking for more and more, with no regard for my needs. When my husband passed away in 2011, they demanded my life insurance money (which was not a large amount), and I finally went no contact with them. I just found your channel, and I am going to order your book. Thank you.

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  @shellcshells2902 · 2 years ago

  I was always the scapegoat. My older brother, the golden child, committed suicide 10 years ago. My younger sister, now the golden child, has estranged from me for 14 years. My dad is emotionally constipated and hasn&apos;t been a father to me ever. My mother is a very toxic narcissist and has smeared campaigned me my whole life. I stay away. The damage it&apos;s all caused me throughout my life has been baffling.

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  @PaigeSquared · 2 years ago

  The destruction of my relationships with my siblings is what I am the most angry about. Even as adults, some dynamics are so strong, you can&apos;t get them to see around it. 😭

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  @Icegypsy-x4o · 1 year ago

  It never ends until you say, Im done with this bs.

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  @IrmaRoma68 · 2 years ago

  The scapegoat is the lucky one everyone else has been sheepled into a toxic relationship trauma bonded to a cult. The escaping goat gets their freedom

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