Why A Man CHOOSES One Woman Over ANOTHER

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• ME

  @MeetStephanSpeaks · 3 years ago · pinned

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• HG

  @hg3207 · 3 years ago

  Never stop a man that wants to leave!

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• SM

  @smile_nia_ · 3 years ago

  Sometimes they go for something less, easier, a good time, no boundaries, no standards, no morals, or no values.

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• NA

  @NadieyeKimiko · 3 years ago

  It’s EXTREMELY hurtful especially when you know you’re worthy &amp; know what you bring to the table 🤷🏾‍♀️

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• DA

  @darlenebush9134 · 3 years ago

  A MAN REJECTION IS GOD&apos;S PROTECTION!

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• SA

  @sandrakaima · 1 year ago (edited)

  Today, I experienced a healing moment. I met a guy I had fancied 21 years ago, and we had a connection back then. I chose to pursue my studies, and over the years, he asked about me but was told that I was seeing someone. Surprisingly, we felt that same connection 21 years later. <br><br>However, when his ex—whom he had broken up with two years ago—found out that he was happy with someone else, she came back into the picture. At that point, we had not yet established a strong foundation. Although our connection is deep, he had been with her for 14 years, and my bond with him wasn&apos;t strong enough to sustain a relationship. <br><br>As painful as it is, I have to step back from this situation. I am glad I listen to you today as much as this hurts my feelings. I have chosen peace and singleness over chaos. I trust in God. Thank you. 🙏🏾

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• AN

  @annetallegrand5656 · 3 years ago

  No one chooses anyone “over you” the man made a choice and it’s not a competition. Women, we are not competing against each other, we are the prize…always! <br>Live your life and stop focusing on external matters, yes. It isn’t that complicated. Men are not complicated, we trivialize things. He’s either the one for you or he isn’t.

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• LO

  @lovemyself9125 · 3 years ago

  I don&apos;t mind a man choosing another woman over me because If I don&apos;t fit his expections he have the right to leave. Why would I want a man who don&apos;t want me or can&apos;t offer me the same love. 👉🏼 The problem I have with some men is, when men date women for over a month and waste her time. Treating her like a Queen and making her believe they a couple and he leave.. Get her pregnant and leave, now complain she not good enough anymore. Staying until they find somebody else.

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• JE

  @jenniferstiles6353 · 3 years ago

  Sometimes you just gotta be honest with yourself and see that it could be YOU. I went through this. Five years ago my guy picked another woman. And Ofcourse I thought he did me dirty and I was sad and mad, and thought he was just a narcissist and he would just find some woman who would take his shit. When we don’t see our own faults we tend to think it’s all them. He is still with this woman 5 years later and she is very much a part of his family. He would not commit to me, but he did to her. Now 5 years later I have grown emotionally and have become a better version of myself. The stuff I did back then makes me cringe. I had very anxious attachments, wounds not healed, I unknowingly sabotaged, I wasn’t a good communicator, etc. heck I don’t blame him for choosing her. He didn’t want the drama I brought. I was a pain in the ass. He did the right thing choosing her. I wasn’t healthy. But I didn’t see it back then. &nbsp;God opened my eyes and helped me to transform into a healthy woman who can bring peace to a relationship. ❤

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• LE

  @leilawiebe5092 · 3 years ago

  Married 33 years and he left the marriage for his Exec Assistant from work. &nbsp;He is CEO. She is my age and has 4 kids. &nbsp;<br>I still just don’t understand. &nbsp;But have worked very hard to move forward and face my own pain and learn! &nbsp;Be better, more open and value myself. &nbsp;<br>I pray and trust there is something better for me out there.

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• LU

  @lucillebatson9533 · 3 years ago

  Betty wright said it best in her song... The best girls don&apos;t always win.... Sometimes you lose for the better...

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• RH

  @RhondaR4 · 3 years ago

  Stephan you just told the whole truth!🔥<br><br>I was that woman who got treated like that. He tried to come back and tell me he still loves me being that he was engaged to the last woman he cheated on me with. He tried to get me to come back using his mother’s death for an opportunity. I’m not the one. I don’t go backwards. He cheated on me from the beginning and abused me. Thank GOD I know my worth now and what I deserve.💯

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