Fundie Dating For Beginners

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• KA

  @katiehunter1214 · 3 years ago

  "I'm not good with kids" is NOT an excuse. It is a fact that some people cannot handle children and when someone's self-aware enough to recognize that and not put themselves in charge of kids, that's a GOOD THING.

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• WO

  @Wolf_Avatar · 4 years ago

  I can't find the exact quote, but the part where Morgan says something like "I've gotten really good at reading his body language" just set off so many alarm bells in my head.  Like... being hyper-vigilant to not make your partner angry.  I'm probably reading too much into it, but it gave me such an icky feeling.

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• KI

  @kikihyde2299 · 3 years ago

  Finding out Morgan vomited at the altar (from a separate video of Paul and Morgan&apos;s) while they were getting married and later cried on their honeymoon <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ba0VovuB0WI&amp;t=3490">58:10</a> at the idea of sex involving whipped cream feels like such a sign and makes me deeply concerned for her. Especially the &quot;dude I barely know you!&quot; on their honeymoon?? Bruh you&apos;re actively choosing to MARRY him!

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• SO

  @soyevquirsefron990 · 4 years ago

  I bet Morgan could write a much better more honest book if Paul promised not to read it.

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• RE

  @Resilient_Sage1988 · 4 years ago

  Paul is definitely the type of guy who was like &quot;How could you do that to me??!!&quot; When Morgan didn&apos;t even know him. I wouldn&apos;t want to be married to that tool either.

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• KI

  @kittypryde08 · 4 years ago

  I grew up hearing “dating is practicing for divorce” and other harmful messages like this. Now I’m 26 years old, have never been on a date, and genuinely have no idea if I’m asexual or just completely traumatized by purity culture.

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• AW

  @awetistic5295 · 4 years ago

  It&apos;s so sad that being in a relationship only means being co-workers in a baby factory for them. They don&apos;t even understand that you can just love someone, make life better with each other&apos;s company or help each other through tough times.<br><br>As a neurodivergent person with multiple chronic illnesses, it&apos;s the only responsible thing for me not to have children. I need help to even take care of myself. I can&apos;t handle stress at all. There&apos;s also a good chance my kids will inherit my conditions. Giving my rescue rats a wonderful life they wouldn&apos;t have otherwise seems like a much more meaningful thing than being a horrible parent.

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• JU

  @justinwatson1510 · 4 years ago

  If you <b>aren&apos;t</b> freaked out by the idea of getting married after 6 weeks, you need a therapist more than you need dating advice.

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• FE

  @feliciam1091 · 4 years ago (edited)

  Paul: It&apos;s nice knowing... She can&apos;t go anywhere!<br>ME: AHHHH! Oh my god, RUN!<br><br>Edit: Also, as a married person, it makes me so sad to hear them talk about marriage. I am so fucking happy, and even when my spouse and I have difficulties, I do literally go to bed everyday so happy that I&apos;m married to my spouse. I can&apos;t imagine being married to someone who I&apos;m not thrilled to be with most of the time. It just doesn&apos;t make sense to me.

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• FI

  @FireBendingProdigy13 · 4 years ago

  Only dating advice you need: find yourself a person that looks at you like Kyra looks at Rachel.

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• AM

  @amanday3103 · 3 years ago

  Oh my god who’s first response to “I really hurt my wife” is “good thing she can’t go anywhere”? That’s actual villain shit right there

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• DR

  @Druzilla86 · 4 years ago

  &quot;As a woman, I&apos;m learning how to let a man lead&quot; was such a sad sentence... I feel for Morgan although I wish this book didn&apos;t exist. It&apos;s awful how she seems to restrict herself to fit into his view of &quot;their life&quot;. I grew up with these views, it wasn&apos;t healthy at all.

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