What Nobody Knows About ADHD and S*x

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  @HealthyGamerGG · 11 months ago · pinned

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  @Xeweros · 11 months ago (edited)

  You could say, the good feeling after you cleaned your home comes not from it being clean, but being able to relax because it is clean? Interesting

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  @ildarkha · 11 months ago

  The biggest problem is thinking about all the stuff in the world DURING sex, which kills the mood completely 😢

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  @black_forest_ · 10 months ago

  One more problem I have experienced is: <br>The longer I delay something, put it off, the more it feels like a chore, even if it isnt. <br>Whether it is talking to someone I really like, playing a game that Ive had on my wishlist for ages, etc. So when it has been 2 months of not having sex, periodically thinking about it but going &quot;nah, not today, Ill do x instead&quot;, <b>having sex</b> becomes a chore that I have to make plans for and it has all these pressures associated with it which makes it hard to get in the mood.

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  @Itz_Grail · 11 months ago

  As someone with adhd, ive really been trying to not listen to my brain alot more. Realizing that literally every urge i have, every desire i have, is just my brain needing a dopamine rush, helps alot. I can &quot;fall in love&quot; with someone in a week and then never want to talk to them again after that.

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  @sir.grumpypawson6598 · 11 months ago

  i cannot cuddle because i end up only being able to think about how our breathing is falling out of sync and i need to get it back in sync

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  @dbtble · 10 months ago

  &quot;They have an assignment due in a week and they are stressing out about it, but they cant do anything until the last minute motivation kicks in&quot;<br>oh my god this is so true

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  @thegamemasterpastor · 11 months ago (edited)

  I have ADHD and was obsessed with this girl. But she wouldn&apos;t go out with me. We stayed friends, but it took me forever to accept that she wasn&apos;t into me. A year later, we were dating and today we&apos;re married with three children.<br>I firmly believe that if she had been into me when I was obsessed with her, it wouldn&apos;t have worked out. After the obsession wore off, I still liked her and was able to pursue the relationship from a much better place.

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  @remphey · 11 months ago

  the worst feeling about having ADHD is that you know that you&apos;re a burden to your partner but it feels like you can&apos;t change anything about it

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  @steevensexcellent · 9 months ago

  As a man with ADHD, dating and living with a partner is draining af

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  @1234redwing · 11 months ago

  In high school, in a bio lab, had a girl sit in my lap. she smiled at me, looked me in the eye and went &quot;Hey, you&apos;re sitting in my spot&quot;. I didn&apos;t realize she was flirting with me because I wasn&apos;t paying attention, I was going &quot;Alright, let&apos;s get this lab done&quot; a week later, I&apos;m going &quot;oh my god, hwat were you doing&quot;

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  @MuffinTopsADTR · 11 months ago

  I often feel embarrassed that I don’t respond when I get intimate and then I tense up further and it kills the mood. I need absolute comfort and trust with a person to feel safe enough to get aroused.

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