When To Show Interest & When To Back Off So She Chases You

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  @Vostrumite · 2 months ago (edited)

  The last woman I dated for about 3 months had a very high level of interest in me, 8-9 on the scale from the book. We were really into each other and had alot of fun together. <br><br>Suddenly she went cold on me and stopped contacting me. Next time I spoke to her she said she was &quot;busy&quot;, so I told her to get back to me when she had more time on her hands. Weeks later she texted me to congratulate me on my birthday AND to tell me again she was &quot;busy&quot;, without me even asking to see her. I just told her the same thing. Then she texted me again about a week later trying to friendzone me, told her I wasn&apos;t interested in that and told her to hit me up if she changed her mind. <br><br>Days later I just removed her from my social media. Mostly to move on but man, the behaviour she displayed at the end was so unattractive to me. <br><br>I&apos;m not dealing with that shit.

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• ID

  @idontknowjordan · 3 months ago

  Thanks coach! After years of watching your videos, I am finally in a serious relationship. We have been together for almost 2 years now!

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• MA

  @markls7888 · 3 months ago

  I just want to say, thank you. A long time ago I was getting out of a long-term relationship, and discovered your work. I wasn&apos;t a rookie when it comes to dating, but I still needed a guiding light. Now I am almost 10+ years married and things are flowing naturally. Thank you again.

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  @Dmitch1408 · 3 months ago

  I needed to hear this. <br><br>My situation isn&apos;t exactly the same but it&apos;s in the same realm. <br><br>Thanks coach.

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• PA

  @paul9290 · 2 months ago

  If you have to play these games to keep her “interested” then you stop now and move on. There are people out there you don’t need to try to keep them interested in you.

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• HI

  @hindflight · 4 weeks ago

  Just filed for divorce with children, ah man this is a huge mess! &nbsp;Even dangerous when tempers can run high - she&apos;s trying to anger her ex husband with hanging out with a guy, probably threatening to throw him out of the house and take half his money. &nbsp;Not the kinda thing I wanna be anywhere near! &nbsp;Stay away my brothers!!

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• MA

  @marcleroux3426 · 4 days ago

  coach knows me without knowing me😂

• LI

  @Liftingweights954 · 3 months ago

  I’m 34 turning 35 this year. I meet women and get numbers and they text back but when I set a date or try to set a date those women straight up ghost and stop responding. I really don’t know what to do. It doesn’t matter where I meet the women I have no luck at all. I’ve also noticed my friends who are married now usually are the beta in the relationship where their wives run the marriage. If I stand up for myself, women will just flat out ghost me or want nothing to do with me. I’m just starting to lose hope as nothing seems to work and yes I’ve read the book 17 times.

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• AL

  @ALEXANDERNEVERMIND1958 · 1 month ago (edited)

  ONCE AGAIN: JUST FALL OFF A CLIFF. HYPOTHETICALLY. U DONT HAVE TO BE AS AVAILABLE TO SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO START BEING RELUCTANT TO CONNECT WITH U AT THE DROP OF A HAT, AND OR OUT OF NOWHERE. ITS OK TO WALK. GET UP FROM THAT NEGOTIATION TABLE ALREADY

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• JO

  @johnthompson5792 · 3 days ago

  Putting a woman up on a pedestal is a disastrous decision!

• KE

  @keithreeds3255 · 2 months ago

  Chad Thundercock😂😂😂😂🤣

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• CA

  @carlrav5660 · 3 months ago

  had a girl with very strong interest over a 45 minute conversation. She was playing with her hair, touched me several times, laughed at my jokes, blew her friends off 3 times to keep talking to me. She wasnt drunk, but was into me I could tell. Midway through she asked for me number and we texted to make sure we had each others numbers. I texted her 2 days later to go out on a date on something she said she wanted to do.... crickets for 5 days so far. Wth was that? I have no clue.

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