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The article with the questions from the chapter: https://www.shaharcohen.co.il/nlp/sel... Neuro-Shift: NLP-based meditations that synchronize the conscious and subconscious, release barriers and create change in reality https://shahar.me/neuro-shift NLP Hybrid Practitioner Course A training course for NLP facilitators, which includes personal training and your personal development process. https://shahar.me/hybrid-nlp To the silent WhatsApp group with a weekly message: https://shahar.me/4xcQexg Instagram: Instagram: shahar.cn 21 days of meditations and messages for: Strengthening inner self-confidence Connecting to purpose and meaning Clearing emotional deposits Changing automatic patterns https://shahar.me/3ziqYcu If you've tried several times to lose weight, earn more money or enter a relationship, and each time something stops you, it could be your subconscious. It's not in sync with what you consciously want, and until this synchronization happens, no diet, business plan or reality-summoning exercise will hold. What seems like self-destruction is usually a defense mechanism: a part of us that recognizes danger where it no longer exists, and stops us like a Tesla that recognizes a wall. In psychology, this is called secondary gain, and in NLP, positive intention. Three cases from the clinic show how to get to the root: Dana, who repeatedly rejects the business she dreams of, Ron, who explodes in anger at every nonsense, and Noa, who must control every detail. We will learn the two questions from the NLP method that reveal what the subconscious gains from the problem, what to ask when there is no answer, and how to continue asking until the ultimate positive intention. We will understand why more willpower only strengthens internal resistance, and we will also talk about the lifeguard who jumps into the water too early, and why there are no bad parts inside us. Table of contents: 0:00 - When the subconscious is out of sync, no diet, business, or relationship will work 0:34 - What does internal resistance to change mean? 1:17 - The hidden danger your subconscious recognizes in relationships or money 3:06 - The counterintuitive question that solves procrastination 5:41 - What is secondary gain and why do we hold on to our problems? 7:23 - What is good about being a person who gets angry and upset about everything? 9:31 - The paradox of resistance: who really controls who? 12:03 - Practical exercise: 2 questions that reveal the deep block in the subconscious 13:44 - What are people who must be in control all the time really afraid of? 16:58 - Why will strategies and tips not work as long as there is resistance in the subconscious? 17:22 - Why are there no bad parts inside us? (The difference between secondary gain and positive intention) 18:03 - How the subconscious intentionally sabotages your relationships 21:31 - How to synchronize the conscious and subconscious Articles on the site that expand the chapter: Self-destruction: what does it stem from and how to neutralize it https://www.shaharcohen.co.il/nlp/sel... Procrastination: why do you procrastinate and how do you really stop https://www.shaharcohen.co.il/psychol... 📌 Key questions that the chapter answers What is secondary gain in psychology? What is positive intention in NLP? Why do I self-destruct myself? How to stop putting things off? How do you release blocks from the subconscious? #subconscious #NLP #self-destruction