적도 친구로 만드는 '부루나 존자'의 3단계 대화법【#보만스님 삶의기술 (5차) 2부】

Do you believe in the power of a single word spoken with sincerity? In today's "Art of Living" with Venerable Boman, we delve deeply into topics ranging from the "3-Step Conversation Method for Turning Enemies into Friends," used by the Buddha's disciple Venerable Puruna 2,600 years ago, to the common communication mistakes we make in our daily lives. In particular, the Venerable’s personal anecdote about how the warm comfort of "Cheer up" can become an unbearable burden for some prompts us to reflect once again on what true consideration and sincerity really mean. Speaking requires practice, too. I hope you gain the wisdom to communicate more deeply and clearly with the precious people around you through today's video. A Transcription of the Buddha's Words to Govern Myself Through 108 Acts of Emptying 📖《I Hope My Mind Is Still》 📌 Kyobo Book Centre: https://bit.ly/47WNyKy 📌 Yes24: https://bit.ly/3JN0t8D 📌 Aladdin: https://bit.ly/43P7jkH (Ven. Boman's Art of Living) 📖《When Even I Don't Know My Own Mind, Buddhist Psychology》 📌 Kyobo Book Centre: https://product.kyobobook.co.kr/detai... [Timeline] 00:00 Preview 01:02 Wisdom of Sincere Communication: Venerable Puruna's 3-Step Method of Speaking 02:01 Speaking Skills Also Require Practice 05:49 Personal Episodes on Sincerity 08:20 The Steps Must Be Passed Before Giving Harsh Words (Harsh Criticism) 10:55 Advice Is Rather Poisonous Moments 13:20 The mistake I made to my husband when he was having a really hard time 15:12 The beginning of relationship conflict and childhood memories of reconciliation 16:22 Why children these days learn 'transferring schools' instead of 'reconciliation' 17:17 Is conflict a bad thing? Conflict Resolution Methods That Become Seeds of Goodness 18:07 Communication in Modern Society Ruined by Dichotomous Frames 19:25 The Attitude to Wisely Face the Winter of Life (Three Calamities, Hardships) 20:43 The Art of a 'Confident and Clear' Apology from Venerable Boman 22:30 Self-Reflection Learned Through Buddhism's 'Self-Confession' and 'Posal' 23:49 The Attitude and Social Responsibility of the Recipient of an Apology 24:45 The True Courage Parents Must Teach Their Children A Handwritten Collection of the Heart Sutra, Diamond Sutra, and Thousand-Hand Sutra for Crossing the Age of Delusion 📖《The Buddha Is Already Within Me》 📌 Kyobo Book Centre: https://bit.ly/3JKhhwW 📌 Yes24: https://bit.ly/47IU7PF 📌 Aladdin: https://bit.ly/4nEcJpK — The conflicts in human relationships and the suffering caused by them that everyone experiences in life. Why do we find apologizing so difficult, and why do we torment ourselves unable to forgive the wrongs of others? In Part 2 of the 5th session of Venerable Boman's 'Art of Living,' we will examine the true nature of the suffering that weighs us down from the perspective of Buddhist psychology and share concrete methods for untying the knots of the heart through genuine apology and forgiveness. I hope you encounter the wisdom to lay down the heavy burdens of life the moment you realize that neither your physical body nor your emotions are yours forever. #VenerableBoman #LifeSkills #ConversationSkills #CommunicationSkills #VenerablePuruna #HumanRelationships #HowToApologize #MindStudy #Comfort #Healing #LifeAdvice #HowToSpeakWell #BuddhistPsychology #Sincerity #1Day1Culture #HumanRelationships #TheArtOfApology #ArtOfLiving #MindStudy #Wisdom #ConflictResolution #SelfEsteem #SelfDevelopment #LifeSkills #InferiorityComplex #VictimMentalism #HumanRelationships #Buddhism #Happiness #Enlightenment #Bodhisattva #ReverseWalkingBodhisattva #LawOfKarma #Practice #HereAndNow #LifeQuotes #DharmaTalk #BuddhistLecture #Mindfulness #LifeWorries #Suffering #MentalCultivation #Suicide #Life #MiddleWay #Appearance #InnerSelf #LawOfKarma #Destiny #Fate #Chance #Enlightenment #Wisdom #MindStudy #Reincarnation #Death #Suffering #Comfort #LifeWorries #NonBirthAndNonDeath #NoExistenceOfStraightDharma #BuddhistPsychology #Transcription #SutraCopying #HandwritingCollection #SutraCollection #MindHealing #Meditation #BookRecommendation #Healing #HowToUseTheMind #Meditation #MindStudy #Psychology #EmotionManagement #ThoughtManagement #Mindfulness #WhenEvenIDontKnowMyOwnMind #MindManual #MindHealing #SelfHealing #SpiritualPractice #Perspective #Memory #Mind #AngerManagement #AngerRelief #EmotionalRelease #LifeWisdom #HowToMakeLifeLighter #StarMonk #TheWindNotCaughtInTheNet #FreeMind #Enlightenment #BookTalk #BookReview #BookRecommendation #KyoboBookstore #Yes24 #Aladdin #MentalHealth #HealingEssay