WHY BLACK MEN Don't Want Marriage @HardlyInitiated

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  @hightolerance2500 · 2 years ago

  Walk in the park, coffee, bike ride, etc. People lack the ability to organically connect minus the aesthetics. IMO we need to get back to the basics

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  @katrinaraglin8073 · 1 year ago (edited)

  I do agree with coffee dates for a 1st date… no dinner dates!!! Most men want to know if they really like a woman before investing more money in her..

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  @nicoleperkins6715 · 2 years ago

  There is nothing wrong with a coffee date. A nice coffee shop with lite bites. 💛

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  @cleopatrawf · 1 year ago

  As a woman, coffee or drinks is good. You can’t properly get to know someone talking on the phone. If this goes on for too many weeks it could also be a waste of time too. If you don’t like the person then it’s easy to make a quick escape. If you like each other then a coffee can easily turn into an evening out.

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  @tennihut4594 · 2 years ago (edited)

  I think people focus too much on the negative instead of speaking on positivity, what’s working in healthy relationships and emphasizing that type of information.

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  @deedubb1311 · 2 years ago

  The female host isn't hearing what the men are saying.  She's just waiting for her turn to speak

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  @tianawoode3237 · 2 years ago

  She is totally correct about the paperwork. My parents split decades ago and both of them were too lazy to do the paperwork work.  Over 30 years separated in 2 different states

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  @DinizEngland · 2 years ago

  Keywords that hit the notes: combative, argumentative, uncooperative, heady, self-centred, me, my needs,my bills, on and on.

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  @rightron1 · 2 years ago

  Ryan... so eloquently escorted her back into position(her place) without getting into a heated debate. He got her attention to see herself. To me that was real love, to help her see herself and how we as black women sometimes show up. Her points were valid but her delivery was aggressive and hard. Ladies we are trying to attract men , not be the man! Guys great job. Thank you!

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  @therealcmplx · 2 years ago

  Some report came out recently about black people having the highest divorce rate in America.<br><br>And you ask the question...why don&apos;t black men want to get married ?<br><br>Consider who files for divorce and you have your answer.

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  @stevestonehuff · 2 years ago

  If “..I am the table” was a person. She’s repeatedly proving the points of her own questions being asked. You can make this 💩 up!

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  @BrendaSmart-e3g · 2 years ago

  Marriages should be based on spirituality first .They must understand &nbsp;about being equally yoked , so they can pray together in times of trouble.

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