WEEKLY VLOG: I Need To Stop Doing This To Myself + Summer to Autumn Topshop Haul | Suzie Bonaldi

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• JU

  @justDarija · 3 days ago (edited)

  Girl, this vlog left really sad feeling in me because I know how hard it can be but you really need to give yourself a grace and try not to do everything. Putting this much preassure on yourself professionaly and privatly is really not healthy! You have a small child and 2 jobs. That can be really overwhelming and this is the period of life where you sometimes just need to sacrifice some social plans etc to keep your sanity. Please try and slow down. Money is important but your well being and mental health  is more important. I know you joke a lot about mental health but putting yourself this much is really not good and maybe talking it through with a therapist would be beneficial. Im writing all of this from heart because you can really feel all the anxiety in this vlog. Maybe just take a short YT break until you get used to your new salon job? Im sure your audience will understand and still be here. Anyways, Im writing you this as a mom of 19 month old who doesnt go to day care and a 2 week old baby. Trust me, I know what chaos is!! But for my mental health Im now in a season where my full focus are kids and everything else is on hold. I know that wont last forever and I'm ok with it.

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• GE

  @germainedenis-t5f · 3 days ago

  Suzie you do need to give yourself some grace, you are truly such a wonderful spirit... 💜

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• AM

  @AmesBanks · 3 days ago

  Suzi I have followed you for years and started watching you again when you had baby girl, as a mum to a toddler myself I can’t tell you how much I appreciate how honest you are, it makes me feel v normal 🩷

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• KE

  @KellydeMello · 3 days ago

  Give yourself grace nobody’s perfect you are doing great girl slow down ❤❤❤😢

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• EX

  @Exceptional_Styling · 12 hours ago

  As a new mum, it can take a lot out of you and now you have started doing nails. You need to get back into the gym, it really helps. Give your self grace ❤

• ME

  @mellybee55 · 3 days ago

  I think you're amazing Suzie, just please be a little kinder to yourself. Your working very hard, being a fabulous Mumma and looking sensational  ♥

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• ME

  @meggyyjohnie1014 · 2 days ago (edited)

  Please be kind to yourself ❤ Take a step back for a few weeks from some things, unfortunately we are in a world now where it is physically impossible to give everything your full effort and energy. It is ok to schedule in time in your calendar to just be. Declining invitations for your mental health is ok! When you feel ready you will then be able to fill up other people’s cups, but fill your own and your family’s first, your friends will understand. Sending lots of love 💓

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• IT

  @itstrulyrosie1696 · 1 day ago

  1. F chic, just do you ✨<br>2. Seconding everyone in the comments about giving yourself grace and cutting out what you can for a period of time. ❤

• PI

  @pinkstartwilight · 2 days ago

  Your nails are giving dragon eggs and I am so here for it!!

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• JA

  @Jade-x8r · 3 days ago (edited)

  The asymmetric top is so nice, love it ❤ I’m reading when the moon hatched, but a really slow reader, so it’s taking a while. The chrome effect nails are beautiful. Don’t beat yourself up, it’s hard to find a balance, you’re doing great, you’re entitled to peace, career &amp; time &nbsp;to vent. Makeup looks lovely as always.

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• TH

  @the_beautydoctor · 3 days ago

  Suzie, I can relate to you so, so much. My mum is just the same. She has always just seemed to have her sh*t together, and I am her chaotic daughter just struggling to get through motherhood and life day by day. Our mothers mean well, but sometimes their comments can hit deep! 🙈 <br>I know I don&apos;t see all of your life, but from what you share, I can see that you are an amazing mother, wife, and friend. ❤❤❤ Be careful not to burn yourself out, and like so many other people have said on here, be kind to yourself. Tell yourself some positive affirmations every day. You are fantastic! ✨️

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• CI

  @cindiiscurious · 2 days ago

  Your parents were not perfect and I don’t even know them. I’m an experienced mom (34, 24, and 15) and we tend to forget the mistakes we made and paper it all over with good memories. It’s a crazy season in your life but nothing is forever. Just remember that.

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