NEUTRALIZE the narcissist's Influence

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• 3D

  @3dholliday · 2 years ago

  I ran into an ex narc and he started talking and as I watched his mouth move I realized I was not required to talk to him so I just walked away, without saying one word. It felt so good!

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• JA

  @jaynemaynard4962 · 2 years ago

  Stay silent and observe, and that way you’ll learn more in the long run. Don’t play their games, they expect you to react

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• NA

  @NarcSurvivor · 2 years ago

  To neutralise the narcissist’s influence, you need to validate yourself. Become your own source of influence. Redevelop your self-love and self-confidence. What keeps you under their influence is often a lack of self-esteem.

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• YO

  @youngblood8540 · 2 years ago

  You can count on being lied to, cheated on, robbed and miserable while you're with them and for the rest of your life if you stay.

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• AM

  @amyasherah · 2 years ago

  When you don't react for so long, they look for the smallest crumbs to berate you for.

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• SY

  @sync-j7c · 2 years ago

  They don't feel remorse for their behavior.  Whatever is our reaction to their invalidation is just normal. We should feel compassion to ourselves..

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• BE

  @benniecampbell3973 · 2 years ago

  THE DOCTOR RAMANI IS RIGHT, DO NOT CALL OUT THE NARCISSISTS, BECAUSE IT’S A HUGE WASTE OF TIME, TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH NARCISSISTS FOR THIRTY FIVE YEARS!!!

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• FR

  @FreedomTruthtoPower · 1 year ago

  Liars, thieving, cheating, manipulating charmers. This made for great movies over the decades but in real life it's an absolute nightmare. In my humble opinion, Dr. Ramani , her wisdom and expertise are a literal life saving, sanity saving, Gift to humanity ! Thank you Dr. Ramani ! For EVERYTHING !

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• JO

  @JohnnyCarthief · 2 years ago

  They want you to react because that’s how they learned to relate to people. When you don’t relate to them, they think you’re being neglectful. So they escalate the provocation…

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• YO

  @yolondagoode9656 · 2 years ago

  I ran into my x abusive narc in dollar tree,i dropped everything i had in my hands i got the hell out the store,my nervous system went  crazy,i can  not  be in the presence  of evil anymore

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• TI

  @tinazapata1379 · 1 year ago

  It makes no sense to apply rationale to their irrational behavior. Calling them out is pointless.  They don't care. They simply want it their way.

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• MI

  @mikederucki · 2 years ago

  My narcissistic uncle drove my aunt to her early grave and then blamed her for not taking better care of her health. If she took even an hour to herself during the day he’d call and text asking when she’d be back…<br><br>I miss her so much and find myself daydreaming “what if” she had just found the courage to leave him. She talked about it many times but just could never take the step

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