Is She Dateable? | JD Rodgers

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• JE

  @jerryc7273 · 8 months ago

  Came back to review still relevant in 2026

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• CG

  @cghynd · 5 years ago

  As a girl, this was a really good message and it challenged me as well!

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• ME

  @mellymel812 · 3 years ago

  WOW! As a single woman I have to say this was the best message I have ever heard about value, truth, God's word and the role both women and men should consider in the dating world. I feel so empowered and strengthened by this message <3 Thank you JD

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• BR

  @brettlarkin1992 · 1 year ago

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PwaKIWelBLE&amp;t=1698">28:18</a> 😂 “I love God’s creation too” “not looking at the sun, looking at the moon”🤣

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• GR

  @GrantJolanta · 2 years ago (edited)

  im not kidding but listening to this talk was like looking in the mirror, makes me think i would legit be the best kingdom spouse

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• DR

  @dr.tylerrauwolf · 5 years ago

  3 questions to ask<br><br>1.) Who currently has her heart? (It should be Jesus)<br>* what does she love? <br>* Who does she love? <br>* Does culture have her heart?<br>* Does any guy that will give her attention have her heart? <br>* Does her ex have her heart?<br>* Jesus shouldn’t be a part of her life but the point of her life <br><br>Matthew 7:20 Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.<br><br>Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law<br><br>Don’t just find someone who calls themselves a Christian. Find someone who lives like Christ <br><br>2.) What dictates her value? <br><br>She was made in the image of God &amp; that’s where her value should come from (not some LV bags or outer appearance)<br><br>Shouldn’t be obsessed with her own image but be an image-bearer (God’s image) <br><br>1 Peter 3:3 - Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.<br><br>Proverbs 31 - Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised<br><br>Value doesn’t come from looks. Is she holy or hot? What is she communicating by what she posts online? <br><br>3.) Can she follow you? <br><br>If she hasn’t found value in Jesus, she won’t follow you - she will NEED you<br><br>You shouldn’t be responsible for starting her fire for Christ. You should be there to fan the flames/make it grow<br><br>Does she understand that marriage is an everlasting covenant? That divorce is not an option?<br><br>Marriage shouldn’t be the end goal. It should be to raise disciples and provide hospitality<br><br>You’d rather be 40 and single than 40 and miserable in a marriage with someone who didn’t put in the work to become this kind of person

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• KY

  @KyleighFran · 4 years ago

  It&apos;s always the random videos that YT recommends that surprise me. He is Preaching! And it got so quiet at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PwaKIWelBLE&amp;t=819">13:39</a> lol I honestly felt the conviction through the screen. There are so many things he said that I know I fall short in

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• KA

  @kaitlynlesso · 4 years ago

  THANK YOU for this sermon!!!! We children of God NEED to literally ask ourselves these questions!! its never been about Marriage, ITS ALWAYS AND ALWAYS WILL BE ABOUT JESUS!!!!

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• BL

  @BlueprintOfAMan · 1 month ago

  We often create a list of what we want in someone else without asking whether we’re developing those same qualities ourselves—faithfulness, patience, honesty, discipline and emotional maturity.

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  @eaternal790 · 5 years ago

  Thank you Holy Spirit for speaking such amazing wisdom through JD! Time to start asking questions and not settling or compromising!

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• MA

  @mariahconklin4150 · 4 years ago

  At the age of 37 this has been a huge transformation for me. I can’t wait to give my boyfriend these 16 pages of these two sermons. Lol! Best sermon ever hands down. 👍 Thank you Lord!

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• GO

  @godsbabeborn-again5945 · 3 years ago

  1st of all, this is pure gold. I normally only listen to Ben Stuart but thought, &quot;let me check this out&quot; and I&apos;m blown away. This is timely. I REALLY needed this. Secondly, I I&apos;m that woman, 34 years old, who&apos;s wondering, &quot;where are these men who love God?&quot; And I&apos;m hoping they&apos;re somewhere out there wondering &quot;where are these women?&quot; But yes, I will be patient and continue to wait on God. It&apos;s absolutely worth it. God bless you, sir. I&apos;m about to go straight to the next video about men.

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