The Rise of Excusing Red Flag Men on Social Media Is Why Women Are Miserable And Don’t Even Know It

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  @_salemtovar_ · 1 year ago · pinned

  There is an epidemic of women who excuse their red flag🚩partners on social media (such as the woman whose' husband packed her DOG FOOD for lunch) and it NEEDS TO STOP! 😭 You don't deserve this bare minimum, lowkey humiliation ritual, crumb treatment smhh. What’s the WORST red flag you’ve ever seen excused online (or in real life)? 👀 Drop it below, I’ll be reading through 👇P.S. if you want to support the channel, don’t forget to like the vid + share it with a friend who needs to hear this 🖤

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  @vianauri · 1 year ago

  A boy in school pulled my hair once, when we were little. My mother told him not to touch me ever again. He was nice to me since. Don't tell your daughters to put up with such behaviour cause the boys will never change if they can do that ://

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  @angelcitygirl · 1 year ago

  The man couldn't put together two pieces of bread and some peanut butter and jelly yet he took the time to find the dog food, scoop it out,  put it into a bag, and write a note. Think about that. WAKE UP WOMAN.

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  @OffbeatWorlds · 1 year ago

  The whole "boys are being mean to you because they like you" we were fed as kids was soooo damaging

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  @kmotz987 · 1 year ago

  The amount of women whose boyfriends don't actually like them is insane

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  @deanwinchesterproblems · 1 year ago

  People say marriage is hard but that's not it. Marriage is WORK, because LIFE is hard. But the marriage itself should be a supportive sharing of burdens that ultimately lightens the load, not another struggle on the pile life already gives you.

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  @NatasjaAitchison · 1 year ago

  “When boys hit and mock you, it’s because they like you.” And then we wonder why so many young women end up in abusive relationships? Christ sake that old chestnut needs to go

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  @vwm0519 · 1 year ago (edited)

  A 48 hour hospital stay for the delivery of your child put your marriage to the test?! I had to have open heart surgery to fix a congenital defect at 38 years old and my husband was with me 24/7 in the hospital for 4 days, while FaceTiming my crying 5 year old wanting to know when mommy would come home. When we got home he had to literally help me shower and dress, I mostly stayed in bed for the first week home because I still had drains in and was on heavy pain meds and he took care of me and our daughter the whole time. It didn’t stress our marriage at all. He did it willingly bc he actually…..loves me and our daughter.

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  @elat2855 · 1 year ago

  If it is all just jokes:<br>1. Why is it funny for your boyfriend/husband to mistreat you or straight up disrespect you?<br>2. Why do we never see the woman &quot;getting back&quot; at the boyfriend/husband? If it&apos;s your guy&apos;s humour to say or act this way, why is it always one-sided? Why is the woman always the but of the joke? Like with those viral vows, why couldn&apos;t she have written something just as crazy about him to make it even? It would have been received much better because it shows both parties agreed to do these kinds of vows, and it is truly all in good fun.

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  @brownenerdygurl · 1 year ago (edited)

  There was a video where as a &quot;joke&quot; the man took her rock climbing, lead her to the rock face, and abandoned her and went back up to the ledge. She was trying to climb back up to the ledge, and crying. He said he was &quot;joking&quot; while watching her climb for her life. Us in the comments told her &quot;he&apos;s trying to kill you.&quot; Same response. 😢

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  @Mimi-cq4bg · 1 year ago (edited)

  My man loves me. He can’t cook. He still makes tuna sandwiches and cuts up apples to pack them for my lunch. <br><br>One day I had to work a 12 hour shift. He brought burgers for us both to the office and we had dinner together. <br><br>It’s not a matter of skill. It’s whether he cares or not. <br><br>When I decided to go back to school? He was my biggest cheerleader. I want to go out with my friends? He’s happy to see me happy. <br><br>If you’re getting less than this? Dip. You deserve better.

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  @BlizzardRush · 1 year ago

  &apos;the dog food was a sweet surprise&apos; I genuinely do not believe that for a second. He couldn&apos;t even be bothered making her a simple sandwich, but packed a bag of dog food for her with a note? Okay.

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