How Your CHILDHOOD Messes Up Your LOVE LIFE!

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• MC

  @Mclaren_karen · 5 years ago · pinned

  Whew! Breeny girl you just broke it down for me in a way that I can now understand who I am! I am most definitely the Anxious Attachment type of person. You also helped me to understand my ex and now I know why we had so many bumps in the rode until we fell off a cliff. Thank you so much honey you have helped me find ME💯💯🥺🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💋💋💋💋

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• AN

  @antoniaa102 · 5 years ago

  Who else skipped through secure attachment because they already know they aren’t that 😂

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• MA

  @mariamakoroma7097 · 5 years ago

  I’am an anxious insecure attachment type. It’s sad and hard to admit. I consistently need reassurance, I need honestly, trust and loyalty and I need to know that you’ll always be there. I’m always in my head and always question every single word and action. I’m currently in a relationship with someone who is emotionally inconsistent and it’s killing me. I feel trapped and burden. I really don’t know what type I attract and at this point I’ll much rather be alone than be so unhappy with someone.

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• PA

  @pastry111 · 5 years ago

  Breeny needs to do a "how to LEVEL UP: MENTALLY (2021)" video !!

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• KE

  @kekeondemand9933 · 5 years ago

  When breeny was mentioning my type, And spoke about the very unstable home, then went on to break it down even more in detail. I broke down into tears!! I have a mother that to this day never wants to apologise for anything or even discuss it! If the discussion ever comes up about certain terrible things that happened while growing up! She literally gets angry!!!! And starts crying and calling us ungrateful!! She don’t want to accept the fact that “These once was little kids has grown up now and remember everything” they want us to forget all the bad things that ever happened and just focus on the fact that they bath and fed us!! evil mums like her don’t want to accept that we didn’t forget what happened and it’s infact still bothering us!! It’s infact affecting our adulthood! It’s infact affecting our fucking relationships mental health social life everythingggggg!! ITS HAUNTING BASICALLY! And I’ve concluded that I need therapy!

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• TH

  @thamarajay3380 · 5 years ago

  Haven’t even watched this yet, but the title alone has me saying ‘FACTS’😩

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• EL

  @elisavillalta237 · 5 years ago

  Why do I feel like I’m a mix of several attachment styles? 😂 Is that even possible

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• TW

  @twayna1234 · 5 years ago

  I'm the avoidant attachment type, why I've never had a bf before lol.

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• SA

  @sarahfidelis205 · 5 years ago

  I’m definitely the anxious person who attracts dismissive avoidance people

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• TH

  @TheAlkebulanTrust · 5 years ago

  This is indeed facts. This is why parents need to learn how parenting actually works. They have no idea that they could subconsciously be damaging their children. As when they become adults they end up attracting toxic and even though they may not necessarily like it. They subconsciously don't mind it...true or definitely true?

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• AL

  @Ali_b1009 · 5 years ago

  It’s mad that I only learnt about this in October 2020. I have elements of anxious and fearful avoidant attachment but I’m able to be alone. However, I have a fear of abandonment/rejection. I continuously blamed myself for the failures of “relationships” and things going wrong. All it took was heartbreak from someone emotionally unavailable to figure this out. I honestly believe the whole situation was sent by God because it “woke” me up and made me change my perspective. And now I’m in therapy getting help 🥳🎉 I will make sure that my future children have a secure attachment

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• AN

  @angelalomeli8620 · 5 years ago

  Can u talk about ALWAYS being in situations of unrequited love

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