If This Is Your Relationship, It’s Abuse

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  @lisasonni · 8 months ago · pinned

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• PA

  @paxdvita · 8 months ago

  They’re not in love with you, they’re in convenience with you.

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  @soumyajoseph7429 · 8 months ago

  They won&apos;t defend you in public. They won&apos;t protect you either.

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  @meabeck · 8 months ago

  They first isolate you from yourself.

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  @Princessdarkloud · 8 months ago

  It took me like 6 years to realize it wasn’t me, it was him doing all of these things. Once I realized it was emotional warfare, I then saw that I had no support system, family, friends, no money, car job, none of which could be tracked as his fault, but when we met I had a great car, 2 great jobs, a strong support system, and money saved. Im still struggling so hard. Thank you for making this!! It’s not talked about enough.

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  @mysticpeace · 8 months ago

  &quot;Being single is better than being with a man who ignores you, neglects you, and dismisses you&quot;. This is SO true. &nbsp;Come back to yourself. &nbsp;Love yourself and you will come back to life (experiencing joy). It can happen. &nbsp; Great content! &nbsp;Thank you! 🙏🏻

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  @GrannyRose11 · 8 months ago

  At a women’s shelter I said, “My ex never put a mark on me.” Someone else said, “The really bad ones never do.”

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  @ND-or5so · 8 months ago (edited)

  Abusers always say it&apos;s the wrong time to discuss the issue. What they&apos;re really saying is, there will never be a right time and at no time will they want to discuss it.

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  @ND-or5so · 8 months ago (edited)

  Society wants people to think abuse is loud and always physical. It&apos;s a cover-up for mental, emotional and psychological abusers.

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  @janicegallegos1990 · 8 months ago

  It gets even more confusing when you have a man that is VERY emotionally intelligent, and can be incredibly sensitive and kind, as long as your problems aren’t HIM. Once they are, then the nastiness comes out. The coercive control, gaslighting and manipulation come out. THAT is incredibly destabilizing. Because you have 2 completely different people that you have to reconcile together. It’s debilitating

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  @MK-mt4kn · 8 months ago

  It’s terrifying to realize, “holy sh*t… he TRULY does not care. He absolutely doesn’t care.”

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  @Armygirl4Christ · 8 months ago

  Withdrawal and the silent treatment, along with an attitude of disgust, can speak way more loudly than yelling. Seething rage just under the surface.

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