Woman Says The Number 1 Reason Dating Is Hard In The Black Community Is Because Of A Lack Of Money!

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• XY

  @xyznumber123 · 19 hours ago

  Finances are just one of several reasons why dating black men is uniquely challenging.

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• BR

  @BreezyBangtan · 10 hours ago

  Imagine not having any money but still expecting to be the head of the household, that doesnt do shit in that household..

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• BE

  @beeha8133 · 18 hours ago

  Even when they have money, they are skinflints. A lot of them always think you are trying to take from them or get over on them when that’s just projection. They have been given  a lot and coddled by the community without ever having to give anything but their presence back . They take that same mindset into dating like we should be lucky they even asked us. And again with the serious gender equality, they can run through quite a few women for years before they start to feel the consequences of that mindset. Then they become old and mean and no one, not even their children want to deal with that.

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• AT

  @atomicgeisha · 19 hours ago

  Women need men with money cause kids  cost money.

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• ER

  @erinhoward1644 · 17 hours ago (edited)

  In a patriarchal society that tells men they should be providers, dating any man that’s broke when you’re not can be dangerous. They tend to be jealous, try to humble you, and get abusive. It’s not worth it. Then you add systemic oppression layer… no one needs all that. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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• CA

  @cantstopwontstop4833 · 18 hours ago

  Loving alone can’t pay no bills

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• FE

  @FeLiciaPreyer · 18 hours ago (edited)

  Money 💸 is not “subjective.” It’s tangible. It pays the bills, keeps a roof over your head, puts food on the table, and provides access to necessities. You can debate its meaning, but you can’t debate what happens when you don’t have enough of it.<br><br>When you partner with people who don’t understand the value of money, you’re setting yourself up for failure. Financial values matter. Financial discipline matters. And who you choose to build with matters.

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• HE

  @HerShe_ · 18 hours ago

  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGe03cT5rRk&amp;t=871">14:31</a> they don’t respect black women, specially

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• AR

  @AresAresandAresandAries · 18 hours ago

  For the young woman with glasses- may I tell you something. I&apos;m a WW hitting 50. <br><br>My mom married mid 20s- tons of dv<br>My brothers married 20s- tons of dv<br>My Nana married 20s- tons of dv<br>I almost married 20s- tons of dv<br>Every WW/ non blk wmn except one that I know who married in her 20s is now divorced bc dv.<br><br>Please never, ever,ever believe we have it better, we do not. What ww are SPECTACULAR at is putting on a show making seem she is doing better for ppl refusing to see the truth. Im sharing personal experience though data backs up everything I said. I am of the opinion women do better when we marry after 40. I&apos;m after 40. My partner is the coolest person I have ever been close with. Thank Goddess. I would not have known what to do with him in my 20s.<br><br>It&apos;s poor sight to say things like,&quot; Jenny gets engaged in her 20s and lives a happy yt life&quot;. Sonot correct.

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• BE

  @BellaJones-p9w · 13 hours ago

  There were plenty of women I know of (me included) who didn&apos;t care about money because we already had it. &nbsp;The reason any man is having issues right now is lack of respect care love loyalty and fidelity and honesty.

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• JA

  @janasmith1629 · 5 hours ago

  Men create hierarchies, women create community. These men want to measure themselves against other men and say Im better than him: money, kindness, appearances and other basic human behaviors have somehow become their currency.

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• AL

  @Alainesteph · 6 hours ago (edited)

  It’s not only money it’s the bad credit also.

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