How To Baffle A Narcissist

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  @goldilocks3593 · 3 years ago

  Being ethically immovable is what really baffles them. They are very confident they can manipulate you by weakening your boundaries. If they can’t, they really can’t figure out what has “gone wrong” 🤔😇

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  @kevindavis1281 · 3 years ago (edited)

  My new favorite line is...<br>&quot;as a former 2yr old myself, I can relate to your tantrums&apos;

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  @soloman747 · 3 years ago

  Narcissists crave relevance. It baffles them when they&apos;re irrelevant to you.

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  @colleenshea2293 · 3 years ago

  After learning (finally) to understand and emotionally manage the narcissist - I find the biggest pain of it all is the certain knowledge that nothing can be done with this relationship at all. &nbsp;It is a limited relationship that must be controlled and has no breadth or meaning because everything is based on the falseness of the narcissist. &nbsp;This is painful when it is a family member or long standing friend.

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  @ChildoftheLIGHT · 3 years ago

  “We clearly think very differently.” No need to say anything further.

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  @brg2743 · 3 years ago

  The littlest things trip them up. &nbsp;They aren&apos;t too bright.

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  @shelley7975 · 3 years ago

  The covert I deal with operates a bit differently. &nbsp;They do things to annoy you to get your attention, and then if you take the bait and argue, they blame it on you. &nbsp;I&apos;ve learned to remove myself mentally and physically. &nbsp;It&apos;s amazing though the lengths they will go to get your attention. &nbsp;They really are children in so many ways. &nbsp;Thanks, Doc, another great video!

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  @tbunnyshy1 · 3 years ago

  Stay aloof….and unconcerned.

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  @dumblizzie · 3 years ago

  Success - give them boundaries, don&apos;t show emotion, stay calm, expose them covertly to everyone, no contact, laugh, have fun without them - watch them die inside cos they lost absolute control, they play the victim, make you look like a nut job - true self revealed, games up😂

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  @stanleydrive740 · 3 years ago

  Oh dear Doc, how much I wish you could have explained all this to me when I was a kid. You make my heart feel better! Sending you a giant hug🧡🧡🧡

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  @cashway0420 · 3 years ago

  A lot of narcissist will be mad at you for sticking up for yourself because they weren&apos;t able to stick up for themselves against the narcissist in their lives that controlled them.

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  @DJDaveParks · 2 years ago

  “i really don’t think i need to defend myself like i have in the past” that’s gold, will add that to my lexicon 👍

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