Why didn't Big date Samantha? || SATC Video Essay
379K views · Jul 9, 2025 · Entertainment
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@TheBlueCurtainClub · 1 year ago (edited) · pinned
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@valleygirl2530 · 1 year ago
She was puffing on a cigar like he does. Her confidence threatened his tightly constructed ego.
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@anniebandana · 1 year ago
Because he knew he wanted to play games, and Samantha would play the game better than him 😂
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@tfphonechick · 1 year ago (edited)
Big never could have handled Samantha. She was too confident and powerful. There is no way he could manipulate her.
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@annathecusper · 1 year ago
I think Sam was too bold, confident and sassy for Big. He liked the insecurity and obsessiveness of Carrie's.
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@Nina-uy1eo · 1 year ago
He wanted a doormat. As soon as he realized Natasha had her own mind, he went back to immature Carrie whom he can manipulate. Samantha will hit it and quit it, she ain’t gonna stand his BS.
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@Bravemoon20225 · 1 year ago
Why Big rejected Samantha? A predator won’t hunt another predator, that’s why. He sensed the danger to become prey himself. Carrie was harmless
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@sugarpearl9781 · 1 year ago
Look at the way Samantha approached Big. She’s as confident, connected, wealthy and secure in her sexuality as he is. She literally had a cigar in her mouth! That’s how men approach women and so many men don’t like to be treated like “the woman” in relationships because they treat women like shit
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@venusroute · 1 year ago
Haven't watched the video yet but I can tell you: she's not easy to control as Carrie.
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@mariaschukariova3438 · 1 year ago
I'm sure that Big actually had big love of his life.<br>Himself
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@prettypastels15 · 1 year ago
I do feel like Sam wasn't 100% his type. Charlotte met his "wifey" standard: prim, proper WASP with "old money". However, I do think Sam would've treated him exactly as he deserved to be treated. She wouldn't have fallen for his nonsense. I'll give Charlotte credit and say even she wouldn't have fallen for his crap either. <br><br>Sam and Charlotte have more in common than they think - both women knew exactly what they wanted, didn't compromise on their values or sexuality, and didn't take a lot of craziness.
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@aroseyglow · 1 year ago
Big was no match for Samantha and he knows it. She NEVER would’ve allowed Big to jerk her around like he did Carrie.
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