These Bethany Beal Updates SHOCKED Me

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  @RachelOates · 2 years ago (edited) · pinned

  I think a lot of you are missing my point about the Zelph thing. My issue was not that they were kind to them, I said that was good, I’ve advocated for that many times. My issue wasn’t that they went slowly with the conversation. My issues were: 1) it didn’t have to be on camera because at this point it wasn’t showing growth, it was just promoting bigots. 2) it was marketed in an offensive way because I and others don’t need to see cutesy photos of bigots who just days ago were laughing about how they’ll never change their mind or apologise now acting like kids while being told she’s super intelligent and kind and I’m supposed to just be ok with that? 3) again, maybe don’t call Bethany an angel when she’s still an active transphobe?<br><br>It’s ok for conversations like this to happen off camera. With where Bethany’s views currently are, it was offensive for Zelph to promote her the way they did. I won’t change my view on that.<br><br>Like I say, I’m not mad at them, I understand why they made that mistake, I’m not holding anything against them, and I still agree with their reasoning behind doing it. I’ll just never agree with calling Bethany an intellectually curious angel while she’s posting transphobic content and laughing about never apologising to the people she’s hurt.<br><br>Edit: because people seem to be missing this too. I don’t need to even 50% agree with the people I’m friends on everything but I do need them to respect basic human rights. What happened was she was way more vocal about being anti-non-binary people and a trans-medicalist that I realised when I first started watching her videos and when we first talked. This wasn’t just ‘oh we disagree on some stuff’ like I first thought, it was ‘oh turns out she is against the very existence of a large number of people’ - that’s where I draw the line. Not just ‘oh look we voted for different parties’ or ‘oh look we disagree on how to tax people’ or something minor like that but ‘oh look, she’s actively campaigning to have the rights of transpeople who haven’t had surgery taken away’. No one is saying match 1/1, no one is saying my way is the only way to think, no one is saying don’t speak to people even remotely different to you, I’m saying I’d rather no hang around with and promote people who are &nbsp;actively and knowingly causing harm to large groups of people. I thought that was obvious. How is that controversial? <br><br>I’m honestly sick of the number of people in my comments section over the last few months asking excuses for rape, domestic violence, sexual assault, homophobia, transphobia, racism, child abuse - if you’re going to defend those views / actions, you can leave. It’s mentally exhausting seeing such disgusting, hateful comments and people wonder why I’ve finally run out of patience with people like Bethany?! <br><br>I’ve given people nothing but the benefit of the doubt for years and for years they keep proving me wrong and hurting more and more people and I’m just tired of it all.

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• AM

  @amigdalies · 2 years ago

  “u are being filled with something SO amazing!!” girl is it semen..😞😞

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• RE

  @RealLukeWilson · 2 years ago

  The cognitive dissonance between not allowing oneself to be married to a non-Christian and not believing in divorce must be so painful for Bethany these days.

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  @thephamilybusiness9485 · 2 years ago

  The masturbation issue is so confusing to me like who the fuck cares if you’re touching your own body on your own time

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• JU

  @juliekeast6175 · 2 years ago

  Bethany is making these &quot;changes&quot; without acknowledging that GirlDefined played a role in making sex sinful , its like she is trying to rewrite history. I just want her take responsibility for the heinous crap re: sex that she helped to push for years.

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• CO

  @cosmiccherricola · 2 years ago

  There&apos;s something so irritating about watching people discover things that everybody else has known for hundreds of years. Like... orgasm feels good and apples fall because of gravity. Shocking

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• JO

  @jonathanstern5537 · 2 years ago

  &quot;I earned my degree from Liberty University.&quot; &nbsp;That line just mad me laugh. &nbsp;That&apos;s like earning a Medal of Honor in Call of Duty.

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• TI

  @Tink00 · 2 years ago

  It&apos;s so wild to hear Christians talk about &quot;the enemy&quot; villifying sex, when it was literally <b>fundamentalists</b> who did that!!

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• CL

  @clarakf · 2 years ago

  How Bethany doesn&apos;t get a headache from all that nodding, I&apos;ll never understand

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  @theakoss · 2 years ago

  no one: <br>bethany: 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↕️

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• AU

  @auntiefish4192 · 2 years ago

  Bethany is actually TMI personified and it’s really weird and uncomfortable.

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  @The_Leftysaurus · 2 years ago

  Honestly I just keep wondering what their interpretation of porn &apos;addiction&apos; is<br>Like don&apos;t get me wrong, that is a real thing yes. But I get the impression that they&apos;ll be like &apos;well if you EVER feel like watching porn and you do so, THEN you&apos;re an addict. <br>Like babes, that&apos;s not how it works. Addictions take over your life, they&apos;re not simple cooping mechanisms to relax before you go to sleep =__=

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